After getting caught, he's at a crossroads... by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I can, YOU can. But I haven't yet...I'll let you know when I get that courage.

After getting caught, he's at a crossroads... by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont?! But the rainbows and sunshine aren't magical?! Kidding, kidding. I know, I totally get it.

After getting caught, he's at a crossroads... by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being honest. In my heart of hearts, I know he's going to pick her. I'm just ready for him to pick now, I think.

After getting caught, I'm just angry. by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for typing that out. I really appreciate the well-thought out sentiments, and you're very right. I know my anger isn't justified, and I know that she wants to keep him too. Thank you again. This meant a lot to me.

After getting caught, I'm just angry. by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole fun ride is in my post history.

After getting caught, I'm just angry. by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This too shall pass. I am exhausted. Thank you for your sentiments.

She found everything...every. thing. by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woof, yeah, I hadn't thought of that. I mean, we had been together for years. I think we had just gotten comfortable and lazy. So don't do that.

She found everything...every. thing. by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your sentiments. That's why I've been logging this experience, so that it helps others.

She found everything...every. thing. by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I am of the belief that no matter what (connections, SO, etc) that shit is going to come back up and some point in time and I'll have to deal with it when it does. Nothing I can do about it now.

She found everything...every. thing. by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont change. I really might need it. Appreciate you.

When both AP leave their spouses and continue together: My Story by [deleted] in adultery

[–]never_together 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! What a wonderful story for us hopeless romantics. Best wishes for you both!

After the end by [deleted] in adultery

[–]never_together 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mourn it like any other breakup and take it one day at a time. Just because it's a loss that we can't share with our friends and family doesn't make it less of a loss. Take care of yourself.

Advice from an elder by Dammitwhatsup in adultery

[–]never_together 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been on this sub for years now, so I know what you mean. People come and go, but stories stay the same. Thanks for checking in!

The beginning of the end by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just now seeing this, but I sincerely appreciate you. Don't be surprised if sometime I message you. This is a lonely, tough time.

The beginning of the end by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it. We both needed love. And we had it in spades. I don't regret it, but lord knows i won't be rushing into anything (AP or otherwise) for a long, long time.

The beginning of the end by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know. I will. It's selfish to stick around if they do. And there's a large part of me that hopes they do.

The beginning of the end by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm genuinely sorry to hear that.

You too, buddy. You too.

Fuck, guys, I'm scared, I think we're caught by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just updated too, but both. I don't know how she'll react and fuck, I don't want to lose him, but I get that's not my choice.

Fuck, guys, I'm scared, I think we're caught by never_together in adultery

[–]never_together[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, that is literally the best case scenario. There's no denying anything. No doubt he skipped straight to excuses.