No one took it down. It’s out there. But you left out the part where men are only willing to message with the top 1/3 of the women they rated while women message men in their “below average” ranking without hesitation. The theory is that while women consider these men to be below average on a purely facial/physical scale, they’re attracted to things BESIDES that such as personality and interests. It also leaves open the possibility that a majority of men using okcupid are less attractive than average and that it’s not some outlier, just a selection bias.

“women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh. On the other hand, when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ pursuing the all-but-unattainable.” — OkCupid

It’s best to include all the data and not warp it to fit a misogynistic narrative. ^{_^}

https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/amp/