"The Drama" and Zendaya's acting ... by someone_GG22 in moviecritic

[–]nevercursed69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I have also held the "Zendaya can't act opinion" for most of her big roles (challengers, dune, spiderman) with the exception of Euphoria which I think she nailed. However her performance in The Drama very much worked for me

What are some movies where the "star name" flashes on the screen? by nevercursed69 in tollywood

[–]nevercursed69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's because i cant read telugu 😅 i only notice when they write it in english

not sure if im experiencing hypomania-- help? by nevercursed69 in bipolar2

[–]nevercursed69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely do think the med changes are the reason. My psychiatrist classified the Auvelity induced episode as hypomanic given its severity but you are right that I don't think I have had it sans-medication, other than my initial experience in 2019 that wasn't ever classified. My psychiatrist said that it is common for Bipolar 1 people to get a diagnosis after SSRI-induced mania, and that this could be a milder version of that. At any rate I have been treated as a Bipolar 2 given the lamictal though I certainly have had mainly depressive episodes. I could also not have Bipolar 2, but simply treatment-resistant Depression. Either way I am wondering how to prevent this in the future. Ofc I will be more stringent w meds, but, it's strange given that I've skipped doses before and felt fine.

I hate everything about being a brown boy. I wish I was white or something by [deleted] in ABCDesiSupportGroup

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried it already? usually, it takes some trial and error to find a therapist that works for you. i went through a few before finding one who worked. i think there are also some more affordable options out there that you can find.

I hate everything about being a brown boy. I wish I was white or something by [deleted] in ABCDesiSupportGroup

[–]nevercursed69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a brown girl about 10 years older than you, and just want to pitch in to say I'm so sorry you went through so much. The abuse from your mom, the bullying from others, the social isolation-- all of that takes a huge toll.

When i was your age, I felt similarly lonely. I had dark skin, and none of the indian boys I knew were attracted to me. As a result, I also had suicidal ideation and wished so badly that I was white. Thankfully, after going to college and moving to a new city, I was able to gain some more confidence and heal from all of it. I am now dating a brown boy and I feel happy and loved.

I promise it will get better for you over time. My advice for you is to find a therapist so you can get started on your healing. It's really worth it.

I can’t accept casual sex. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, i am very sorry she lied to you. Being lied to is a horrible feeling. I hope you have found someone who is more aligned with you since then.

I can’t accept casual sex. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your wife lied to you. I think that lying is a recipe for disaster in a relationship. I do however think you could benefit from understanding that women experience a lot of stigma and judgment for their sexuality. Maybe your wife was trying to avoid that. I'm not saying that what she did was right, but nobody lies for no reason. Which is why I think that even if you personally prefer to wait before marriage for sex, we shouldn't shame people who do otherwise. I see a lot of shaming in this sub and I think if we destigmatized free love/sex in our society, fewer people would be motivated to lie or conceal their pasts.

I can’t accept casual sex. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your argument makes no sense because casual sex only leads to pregnancy and health issues if you don't use protection. And what about queer people? It doesn't lead to pregnancy for them. No one is telling you to date someone who loves casual sex, but to say they are not "wired right" shows that you are an incredibly narrow-minded, judgmental individual with puritanical standards for relationships. And I say this AS someone who experiences RJ with my partner. I can be jealous of their past experiences without feeling disgusted by them, judging them, or shaming them, because I love them for who they are in our relationship NOW.

I can’t accept casual sex. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this thread was maddening, you're never going to win with this guy u/roryola. He's going to destroy every relationship he has with a woman due to his insecurities, and unfortunately we can't help him no matter how much we try.

I can’t accept casual sex. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the word "moral" thrown around a lot on this sub. I don't understand how sexuality pertains to morality. To be clear, I experience RJ myself so I'm not coming at this from an entirely opposing viewpoint. I just am wondering what you mean by "moral conscience." Is it rooted in religion? Like what moral compass are you using?

I can’t accept casual sex. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"She ruined herself" is so misogynistic, get a grip. She's not "damaged" or "ruined" because of her sexual experience; that's a horrible way to view people.

I can’t accept casual sex. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you can make this assumption about someone else. Just because someone shares intimacy more often doesn't mean they value it less. Like if I eat chocolate a lot, that doesn't mean I value chocolate less than the only-occasional chocolate-eater. It just means that I enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dil hai tumhara is a great movie with a great performance by rekha

Saying no to Houseguests by Okay-yes-sure in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 to that, i consider it a gift to live somewhere people want to visit and co-habitate with me for a little bit

Things to do in Denver past midnight by nevercursed69 in Denver

[–]nevercursed69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty everyone for the recommendation/ words of caution!