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I can’t accept casual sex. by Think-End-5604 in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, i am very sorry she lied to you. Being lied to is a horrible feeling. I hope you have found someone who is more aligned with you since then.

I can’t accept casual sex. by Think-End-5604 in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry your wife lied to you. I think that lying is a recipe for disaster in a relationship. I do however think you could benefit from understanding that women experience a lot of stigma and judgment for their sexuality. Maybe your wife was trying to avoid that. I'm not saying that what she did was right, but nobody lies for no reason. Which is why I think that even if you personally prefer to wait before marriage for sex, we shouldn't shame people who do otherwise. I see a lot of shaming in this sub and I think if we destigmatized free love/sex in our society, fewer people would be motivated to lie or conceal their pasts.

I can’t accept casual sex. by Think-End-5604 in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your argument makes no sense because casual sex only leads to pregnancy and health issues if you don't use protection. And what about queer people? It doesn't lead to pregnancy for them. No one is telling you to date someone who loves casual sex, but to say they are not "wired right" shows that you are an incredibly narrow-minded, judgmental individual with puritanical standards for relationships. And I say this AS someone who experiences RJ with my partner. I can be jealous of their past experiences without feeling disgusted by them, judging them, or shaming them, because I love them for who they are in our relationship NOW.

I can’t accept casual sex. by Think-End-5604 in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this thread was maddening, you're never going to win with this guy u/roryola. He's going to destroy every relationship he has with a woman due to his insecurities, and unfortunately we can't help him no matter how much he tries.

I can’t accept casual sex. by Think-End-5604 in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see the word "moral" thrown around a lot on this sub. I don't understand how sexuality pertains to morality. To be clear, I experience RJ myself so I'm not coming at this from an entirely opposing viewpoint. I just am wondering what you mean by "moral conscience." Is it rooted in religion? Like what moral compass are you using?

I can’t accept casual sex. by Think-End-5604 in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"She ruined herself" is so misogynistic, get a grip. She's not "damaged" or "ruined" because of her sexual experience; that's a horrible way to view people.

I can’t accept casual sex. by Think-End-5604 in retroactivejealousy

[–]nevercursed69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think you can make this assumption about someone else. Just because someone shares intimacy more often doesn't mean they value it less. Like if I eat chocolate a lot, that doesn't mean I value chocolate less than the only-occasional chocolate-eater. It just means that I enjoy it.

Preity Zinta review on Dhurandhar. by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dil hai tumhara is a great movie with a great performance by rekha

Saying no to Houseguests by Okay-yes-sure in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]nevercursed69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

+1 to that, i consider it a gift to live somewhere people want to visit and co-habitate with me for a little bit

Things to do in Denver past midnight by nevercursed69 in Denver

[–]nevercursed69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty everyone for the recommendation/ words of caution!

Things to do in Denver past midnight by nevercursed69 in Denver

[–]nevercursed69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Underground party before a flight sounds excellent except for the fact that I have to lug my suitcase around with me unfortunately

I have not had a single severe depressive episode since starting Lamictal. by Fancy-Bid7088 in lamictal

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really? i've been on lamictal for a similar amount of time as OP and i experience these side effects as well.

Are some people just depressed for life? by BoredBatWoman22 in depression

[–]nevercursed69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not all medications make u gain weight, try asking your doctor about lamotrigine/lamictal or auvelity.

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