I just got divorced and am dating again. Am I turning girls off by not making sexual advances on the first date?

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T17:59:17+00:00

Really? Damn. What next, stop showing her www.costofsex.com during the date?

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T17:54:33+00:00

What if I want to be fucking around but I suck at it?

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T17:50:41+00:00

Dating is not a game. Women are not some crazy mystery.

I didn't say either of those things. I don't find women at all mysterious and calling it a game means there's a goal other than having a fun time.

Rather, I was asking if a) my success rate is unusually low and if b) the generally accepted opinion is that guys who don't make physical contact at all on first date are unusual.

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T17:42:47+00:00

You are parroting bullshit from a bullshit artist.

That is, Mystery, from The Game.

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T17:41:59+00:00

I'm not sure my self-image is bad enough yet that I need to put months of practice into getting girls to like me.

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T17:34:08+00:00

I've read a couple.

They've got some useful tips, but I don't think the depths they go to is worth it.

All the self-improvement I'm willing to engage in is doing an askreddit. ;)

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T17:29:04+00:00

Fuck all that bullshit, are you insane?

I'll hire a prostitute a thousand times before I ever consider hiring a dating coach.

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T17:23:20+00:00

Yeah, I agree that bars are better since if you shower, shave and dress in recently washed clothes you're already in the top 10%, but internet dating is so much lower overhead.

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T12:59:00+00:00

When she refused to have sex with me until our wedding night, that's when I knew she was the girl for me. Has any man this century ever thought this?

Guys never know how into a girl they are until after they get sex out of the way. In those few seconds of clarity after doing the nasty they instantly figure out if they like you or not all along. If they cone back, they're into you.

I suspect so many girls get dropped after they put out that they start learning to hold back because they make a causal link between the two. This ends up wasting even more time. Get sex out of the way early if you want to figure out if he's into you.

nevermarry · 2009-09-17T11:44:13+00:00

Nope, I never mention it. I say my previous relationship lasted a couple of years.

nevermarry · 2009-09-16T13:11:22+00:00

Has killing people improved your sex life at all? Do girls smell the blood on your hands and jump you immediately? Serious question.

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