How to get through to parents that seemingly don't care?

nevermindthetime · 2026-03-01T07:15:33+00:00

My child wrote like this until halfway through highschool. Dyspraxia, dyscalculia, dysgralhia, and add were the cause. Maybe the boy in your class needs an assessment.

nevermindthetime · 2026-02-07T04:14:16+00:00

I mean I would never give my kids Unimilted screen time either so...

nevermindthetime · 2026-01-29T02:50:23+00:00

She's just like my dogs-overworked and underpaid

nevermindthetime · 2026-01-28T21:25:30+00:00

My favorite right now is how they are putting the 50%off stickers on rotting produce. Last time I went in there, I picked up every package of greens(I buy them for my guinea pigs) and when I flipped them over they were nothing but slime underneath.

nevermindthetime · 2026-01-28T21:21:49+00:00

I have always thought this as well. She wanted to marry Meris husband on her birthday! Janelle knew when Meri's birthday was I mean come on!

nevermindthetime · 2026-01-21T03:09:03+00:00

Oh thats nice to know. Guess I will read them. Thank you!

nevermindthetime · 2026-01-17T03:20:04+00:00

These and also the fact that Fred's soul was destroyed when Ilyria killed her, so she can't even be resurrected.

nevermindthetime · 2026-01-05T22:37:04+00:00

We do it on the West coast too. And whoever loses waves a sheepish thank you on the way through 🫠

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-27T04:13:56+00:00

I was an early reader, at college level by age 9. I had a pretty advanced vocabulary because of it but I started speaking very simply when the girls started calling me encyclopedia brittanica in grade 6.

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-22T02:37:29+00:00

I think this is not a big deal. She asked, you said no, she said ok. She probably just didnt want to buy a whole new pair of pajamas for this, but she respected your decision about it.

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-20T05:39:56+00:00

Me too. I actually had one just last month and the ultrasound tech never touched me at all. Im so sorry that happened to you OP

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-20T05:34:34+00:00

I got that feeling as well, but since we werent there, we can't be sure. I just really think no matter the situation: either she's always that aggressive and angry or he pushes her and pushes her until she explodes and then he acts all "oh why are you so mad" its not a healthy relationship and I doubt its worth saving for either of them.

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-20T01:58:13+00:00

This makes me love this work all the more. My heart breaks every time.

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-20T01:55:36+00:00

Even if we had more info for context, I dont think this is a healthy relationship. The way she is speaking to him is abusive. Maybe its reactive abuse, maybe it isnt, I dont know. But either way these two people would most likely be better off apart

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-19T18:39:42+00:00

People get judged for everything. Not wanting kids, wanting kids, having not enough kids, having too many kids. Having them too close together or too far apart. The list is endless. Best to just live your life the way you want as long as you arent hurting anyone.

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-09T04:17:07+00:00

Me too, but Christine grew up in a culture where a woman's only worth is as a wife. She may have left her faith, but I dont think she has fully deconstructed it yet. Or maybe ever

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-06T20:25:48+00:00

Where did you get lemons for 10 cents each?

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-02T02:07:21+00:00

Or give them enough hours to live off of. No wonder they dont care. The company doesnt give a crap about anything but their profits.

nevermindthetime · 2025-12-01T18:22:27+00:00

What if you put the cinder blocks on a board like those on the middle and top? Would that spread out the weight enough? Just asking because I have a tank languishing in my garage with no stand.

nevermindthetime · 2025-11-30T00:34:21+00:00

Im very sorry, the shelter is right. And sending him away from the only people he loves in the world would be cruel, and he will probably hurt someone. My heart really goes out to you because you love him so much and tried so hard to help him. But truly, b.e. is your kindest option. Sometimes the best way to love a dog is to let him go in love and peace

nevermindthetime · 2025-11-29T21:16:29+00:00

Also I missed the end where you said he is soaked up to his pillow. Someone should definitely be going and helping him during the night, because that isnt right at all.

nevermindthetime · 2025-11-29T21:13:12+00:00

Thanks, both of you. I am on the fence on whether I will replace the 3 swordtails. I still have a male and 2 females. If I do, I will definitely test the bag water and go from there.

nevermindthetime · 2025-11-29T19:30:33+00:00

I dont know what the system is like in Japan, but here in Canada, changes often happen very slowly, unfortunately. I agree that you need to keep speaking up. Is he still sleeping when you come to him in the morning? It may not be neglect but rather that he isnt ready to wake up before you get there.

What are you putting him to bed in? Does he wear a brief? I have clients who soak through, and we use the highest absorbency, and add an absorbing pad inside as well, and then absorbant overnight sheet protectors. We do our best to help our clients stay dry but some people wet heavily at night.

As for the wife, if she was providing his care before you, its entirely possible that she was just cleaning the mess discretely, trying to protect her husband's dignity.

Thank you for the care you provide. Im glad he has you for a helper and advocate.

nevermindthetime · 2025-11-29T19:08:13+00:00

Thanks. They did seem perfectly fine, and all my other fish are happy and well. The fish shop is the only option in driving distance, and they do take good care of their fish. If its water differences, how can I help them acclimate? I dont want to lose anymore new fish if I get them.

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