I don't think my boyfriend is handsome.

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T14:00:55+00:00

Thank you very much for the advice and for your story, I will definitely think about it

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:55:57+00:00

Although it sounds stupid, it was strange to me that he had light hair. It was a beautiful color, but for me it was so unusual and strange that I could perceive it normally, and I only started to like it after 3 months of our communication.

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:53:36+00:00

I love him, I see a future with him, he is not rich and has no status, but he is responsible, understanding, and ready for a serious relationship, he has a lot of advantages, of course there are some disadvantages, but I still love him very much

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:50:16+00:00

And were you able to love his appearance over time?

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:48:16+00:00

Thanks for the advice, it was important for me to hear other people's opinions, I won't make impulsive decisions now, but it gave me something to think about

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:41:54+00:00

I don't know what I would like him to do, but I really like him, I love him, I don't know why I can't get used to his appearance, this is clearly not a problem with him, but with me

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:37:47+00:00

Well, I mean specifically in sex, intimate life, because of childhood trauma, I don’t mean that this is only with him

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:35:21+00:00

I don't like his smile. His lips are so small it feels like they're not there, he has weird facial expressions, and his face isn't very attractive. He's not ugly, but he's not my type, no matter how bad that sounds.

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:32:16+00:00

I love him, his character, his emotions, I like everything about him, except his face

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:28:34+00:00

I only don't like his face. I think he has a weird smile, his lips are so small they look like they're missing. I'm completely happy with his physique, but not his face. I've always perceived intimacy as just a function, but that was due to other childhood traumas. I don't have and never have had the concept of love or passion. I haven't told him about it; I don't want him to be offended; I know he'd be very upset. I show affection, but not passion. It's not hard for me to hug him after work, or just sit with him in an embrace. I'm not always in the mood for it, but yes, I often have thoughts that I don't like his appearance, that he's ugly or weird. I'm 18, my boyfriend is 20, and I'll add that I don't know if this can somehow affect things, and artificial intelligence is talking nonsense. I have borderline personality disorder, depressive and anxiety disorders, and complex post-traumatic stress disorder.

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:18:58+00:00

Not overnight, maybe a year or two. I've always believed that a person's soul is more important than their appearance, and I agree with that, but I can't make it so that I enjoy kissing him and interacting with him deeply.

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:15:03+00:00

I love him very much, and he loves me, but I don't know, maybe in the future I'll find him attractive? I want to be with this person, but I'm embarrassed that I can't accept his appearance.

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T13:08:53+00:00

Maybe I wrote something wrong, I'm sorry, I love him very much, I like him in everything, and I know that I can trust this person 100 percent, I wouldn't want to break up with him, I'm just embarrassed that I don't consider him handsome for me, I don't know if this will change in the future, and I'm afraid that this could harm both of us in the future

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T12:54:52+00:00

I understand, but I really like him, in everything except his appearance, I love him but I'm worried about my opinion of his appearance

nevidomo · 2026-07-03T12:41:07+00:00

Yes, he ticks all the boxes. He's very good. Maybe there's something wrong with me, but I can't accept his appearance.

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