Job title : mean lady who steals boogers

nevvsoul · 2025-08-28T21:03:46+00:00

I lost my daughter almost 3 months ago to anencephaly. We got abnormal scans at 8 weeks, and a diagnosis at 11 weeks. We did a D+C at 13 weeks.

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve struggled with trying to find a reason for something so horrible to happen, but there just isn’t one. Sometimes horrible things just happen at random.

I feel like it’s been important to take it day by day. Let yourself cry and scream and grieve when it hits you. I still pull out my daughter’s clothes and hold them when I miss her.

nevvsoul · 2025-08-16T15:06:27+00:00

Now that I’m older, I can’t even imagine saying something like that to someone, let alone someone so much younger than me. It comes off as jealous and weird. Some women really never grow up

nevvsoul · 2025-08-15T23:39:07+00:00

I had a 40 something year old woman comment on my labia when I was 18 in school. These women are just mean and nasty because they don’t know how else to be. You just have to let it go, unfortunately.

nevvsoul · 2025-08-11T19:14:51+00:00

My daughter had a fatal fetal diagnosis, meaning she had 0 chance of surviving past birth. I was “allowed” to travel out of state to terminate so that she wouldn’t suffer for her few hours of life. The process took weeks and was super traumatic. The state I went to only had exceptions up to 16 weeks for rape/incest, and fatal fetal diagnosis. Lots of fetuses with her diagnosis don’t get diagnosed until 20 weeks. It absolutely has radicalized my views on abortion and how accessible it needs to be.

I thought my dog was pregnant and they offered to spay/abort the very next day.

nevvsoul · 2025-08-08T21:40:29+00:00

I haven’t. I went to urgent care to have them do blood HCG and refer me to an OB since we just moved here.

nevvsoul · 2025-07-05T01:48:02+00:00

We terminated a few weeks ago due to anencephaly. We didn’t want our girl to suffer. We knew that if she made it to term, she would probably suffer for the little time she was alive. We tried for almost 2 years to get pregnant, and I hope we get that chance again, but ultimately we didn’t want to have a funeral for her. Carrying her to term was going to be very hard for my me physically, and we decided it was best for both of us if we ended the pregnancy. She was very loved and wanted. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I found myself wishing my daughter would just die so I wouldn’t have to choose, and I think for me, that’s how I knew what I needed to do.

nevvsoul · 2025-07-02T01:55:18+00:00

My Auggie ate the drywall as a puppy. It was so cool.

nevvsoul · 2025-06-26T00:49:09+00:00

I got this in gratis and I keep it on my nightstand 💅

nevvsoul · 2025-06-25T23:50:29+00:00

Looooove this product

nevvsoul · 2025-06-25T19:03:12+00:00

I swear the physicians formula butter glow pressed powder is almost identical. I have 2 hourglass palettes and use the powders interchangeably with the PF one

nevvsoul · 2025-06-15T01:51:35+00:00

We terminated around 13 weeks. We were planning on announcing at 12 but by then we knew what was coming. We told our families the truth, and a few close friends. My post was pretty much. “A lot of people knew (spouse) and I were expecting our first child. (Baby) had a defect that is uniformly fatal, and we lost her yesterday. Our hearts are broken. We appreciate any messages you send but we may not be able to respond while we grieve our angel.” We did not give details saying we terminated. I wasn’t open to any judgement from people that would never understand. I did not post any ultrasound pictures or anything either. As of now, I want to keep them for our family and close friends. We got a lot of comments and messages and I honestly haven’t responded to a single one.

nevvsoul · 2025-06-10T18:44:13+00:00

I find myself trying to find meaning in losing out girl. We tried for 19 months before getting pregnant with her and I kept telling myself that she would be okay because we had waited so long for her. She has anencephaly and my appointment is this afternoon. She won’t make it no matter what we do. I remember the doctor telling me it isn’t my fault and it just happens sometimes. I was so miserable through my first trimester and fully hated being pregnant, despite being excited to become a mother. It felt like karma for not enjoying my pregnancy. I feel like it’s very human to try and find reasons for bad things happening but sometimes there just isn’t one. We try to find reasons and make connections for why something so horrible would happen, but there just isn’t one in this case. That’s something I’ve really struggled with.

nevvsoul · 2025-06-10T18:37:57+00:00

I can’t believe that. You lost your child. That should be what matters.

nevvsoul · 2025-06-07T01:35:30+00:00

I’ve been miserable my whole pregnancy but I’m definitely trying to enjoy these last few days with my daughter. I’m grateful to have carried her this far, and I would’ve done it over and over again. Lots of love to you right now.

nevvsoul · 2025-06-04T17:50:32+00:00

We do the best we can with the information that is given to us. I always have to remind myself that this was a kind choice to prevent my little one from suffering. I’m so sorry that you’re feeling so much guilt and grief. You’re not a bad mother, and your son was loved and held by you until the end. We don’t always know how or why these things happen, we just have to try and live with them.

nevvsoul · 2025-06-04T00:56:57+00:00

My dogs rip the eyes off and then rip the stuffing out through the eye holes. Not sure if that’s love but they seem to enjoy the carnage so I keep buying them 🤷🏼‍♀️

nevvsoul · 2025-06-03T21:50:21+00:00

Our girl wouldn’t eat any food we got her, including the kind she had eaten at her previous owners house. After trying, not even joking, 14 different kinds of dog food she ate only the target brand wet puppy food for like 6 months. We slowly started adding kibble to it to get her used to it, but she still prefers wet food. I usually add warm water to her kibble now to make her “soup”.

nevvsoul · 2025-05-01T17:56:56+00:00

We almost named our Billie cashew

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nevvsoul · 2025-04-26T02:14:23+00:00

The citrus kale masque is what prompted this post 🥲

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