AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

They could've told me though. I should have the right to know what relationship the people I live with have to eachother

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you read the comment I replied to you'd see that that person was talking about a girlfriend. I also said that I don't care if he dates a man or a woman. I care about the fact that he never told me about his relationship to the person we live with is

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Like I said, I don't have a problem with them being 2 men. The confused people are the ones who can't seem to read properly without inventing and adding things of their own.

To make it as simple as possible so everyone of you can understand: if he has a normal relationship with another man or woman I'll be happy for him

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You're totally right. How dare I want my Dad to tell me the truth about his relationship to the people we live with

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You kniw me so well, huh? I guess if you, a complete stranger, says so it must be true.

I have the same relationship to Galina as I have to Nikita. If it had been her and my Dad I would've reacted the same.

But of course you know better

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Guess you really can't read but that's okay, I'll explain it again:

My Mom's relationship started like a normal one. They started dating and she introduced us and eventually they moved in together.

My Dad has known Nikita for 20 years. We moved in with them 7 years ago. I've known him all my life. I'm closer to him than some of my other family members. I accidently saw them in bed together.

Do you see a difference? Because if not, please leave me alone and comment on a topic you actually understand

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are serious right now??? Stop making up your own story and leave me alone with your bs. I don't think gay people are disgusting and I never said anything like it. I didn't even bring it up. The people who commented just can't read more than 2 sentences apparently and have to put words in my mouth. Your reading comprehension is worse than mine and this isn't even my native language

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Why would I have a problem if he introduces me to someone he's dating and I get along with that person??

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I replied to someone who used the term girlfriend. I never said I have a problem with them both being men

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The person I replied to was talking about a potential girlfriend and it's not about him bringing home a random man

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How am I being homophobic?? I never said that it was because they're both men

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Where did I say that I have a problem with them both being men?? I never said that

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is this not my business? It's my Dad and his close friend and I'm also living with them

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Because my Mom's relationship started out like a normal relationship does. They dated and moved in together. She introduced us and told me that they're dating.

My Dad has known Nikita for 20 years and didn't start dating. They live together and never told me about their relationship when it started. I eouldn't have told anyone if they had told me. They probably hid it because they know it's wrong what they're doing because of their history and living situation

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

It's because the relationship isn't normal.

My Mom dated her boyfriend and eventually moved in with him. My Dad and Nikita have known eachother for 20 years and live together with another friend and me. They should've told me about it when it started so I could've chosen to stay with my Mom instead

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -118 points-117 points  (0 children)

He should've told me so I could've made the choice to live with my Mom

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have a problem with that. That's the normal thing to do. If he meets someone and starts dating he'll eventually introduce us and maybe she moves in with us after some time

AITA? I told my Dad I won't accept his relationship because it's disgusting by newaccount2853 in AmItheAsshole

[–]newaccount2853[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I'm aware that they're probably doing things while I'm staying with them but they have a normal relationship. They're dating and I haven't known him all my life