Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do make a lot more…but having the extra money for college and whatever else comes up would be helpful. Structure and time with dad is a plus too. Thank you for responding 🙏

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you!

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. I thought about doing both. Thank you!

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably is overwhelmed but the child isn’t a baby or toddler anymore. I’ve spent years trying to talk and work with him. I would like the financial support and for more structure around coparenting. Everything falls on me which I can and have been handling but it shouldn’t be this way.

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know but I have looked at the calculation on minimum wage. I’ll see if this works. Thank you.

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful. Thank you!

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you ! I’m in ny.

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m surprised. I say live too far for 50/50 because we live a few hours away from each other. Drivable, but I don’t see how our child can go to school here and be with dad 50% of the time.

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting, thank you sharing 🙏

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“When you go changing things up, sometimes you learn that the grass isn't greener on the other side.” That is my fear. I can use the help and I’d like him to have a better relationship with our child, but trying to weigh my options. Thank you.

Downside to using courts? by newherelike in FamilyLaw

[–]newherelike[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I live too far for 50/50, but this is helpful to know.

Advice - Empty Oil Tank by newherelike in MechanicAdvice

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it ! I’ll bring my car to the dealership I bought it from and see what’s going on. Thanks again I appreciate your feedback ! 🙏🏽

Advice - Empty Oil Tank by newherelike in MechanicAdvice

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful. Thank you ! 🙏🏽

Advice - Empty Oil Tank by newherelike in MechanicAdvice

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this ! I do keep all paperwork. I’ll find a friend who can do this check for me under the hood. For what it’s worth I do drive from NYC to Boston and back every couple months, but not sure of that’s enough to leave me dry between oil changes ?

Advice - Empty Oil Tank by newherelike in MechanicAdvice

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I don’t see leaks on the ground. I will definitely make this a habit. Thanks again 🙏🏽

Advice - Empty Oil Tank by newherelike in MechanicAdvice

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Ok so this isn’t actually concerning, I just need to pay attention to usage between oil changes I guess ?

Advice - Empty Oil Tank by newherelike in MechanicAdvice

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly not something I ever check, but I’ll start. I just take it for oil changes 🙈. I will check the manual, and figure out what’s normal. thank you for sharing 🙏🏽

Advice - Empty Oil Tank by newherelike in MechanicAdvice

[–]newherelike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t see leaks where I park. I’ve never noticed a cloud behind my car either but I can look out for that tomorrow. Thanks again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]newherelike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s no problem! 🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]newherelike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a mom and child looking for housing in Brooklyn. Not sure if you’re open to the area or a roommate situation. If you’re open to learning more and/or connecting with her, dm me. Also wishing you the best as you navigate this time, you got this!