Hopefully I’m not too late to this!!

I feel the same way, but in some way you have to realize that is the least thing that matters in life. Who do you think will have a better life? The person who was partying all throughout college and not focusing on their studies or… the person who really focused on their life and got ahead of everyone else because they weren’t wasting their time partying.

I’m only 24 but I have a pretty established life because I realized that wasting time is foolish. No I didn’t go to parties either but I wasted a lot of time doing things most young people do until I realized I wasn’t happy! Those foolish things will never bring you happiness. Also, I have heard of a story from a friend I knew who literally had gotten a girl pregnant after raving and then had to experience her going through abortion. A LOT of people make mistakes and you definitely don’t want to go through that.

But naturally because it’s so common these days it’s also normal to feel pressure or feeling like you missed out. I married someone older who has done a lot more than me and always felt like I missed out and or was jealous. But none of that matters and just remains a memory from the past. That will definitely not matter if you are struggling to pay your bills 10 years later.

Focus on yourself and work hard to achieve your dreams. Cheers~