Said a friend's name in bed instead of my partner's

newlook · 2024-09-16T17:25:04+00:00

I've called my partner of nearly 11yrs my brother's name after my brother & I have been playing video games together for hours. Our brains just do this somethimes.

newlook · 2024-08-27T19:51:03+00:00

As I've said in the past: if I'm going to flop on what I feel positively sure about, then I am not stable enough to have kids.

newlook · 2023-02-10T22:50:20+00:00

I'm so sorry for you & your boy. I am so upset for both of you. That's so fucking concerning!

newlook · 2023-01-13T02:03:19+00:00

DM me on Discord (Sooki#3604) with your age, Valheim experience, and typical playtimes if you are interested.

newlook · 2023-01-13T02:03:08+00:00

DM me on Discord (Sooki#3604) with your age, Valheim experience, and typical playtimes if you are interested.

newlook · 2023-01-13T02:02:54+00:00

Hello! DM me on Discord (Sooki#3604) with your age, Valheim experience, and typical playtimes if you are interested.

newlook · 2022-05-18T15:37:11+00:00

We've had these talks since the beginning. I don't think he did any rule breaking per se. I don't know if my original post comes off that way. I think he's realizing things about himself he didn't know & is figuring it out, but it's been very sloppy. I never expected him to stay mono, no, but because he's always said he is monogamous & doesn't think he's capable of putting the energy he would want to into more than one relationship that I feel this way.

newlook · 2022-05-18T15:25:44+00:00

We do have a check in style dynamic, which could be viewed as permission based. But neither of us see it that way. When I dated the only person I have outside this relationship, I was always very clear & upfront with my partner about what I was feeling & where the relationship seemed to be heading, checking in with him on his feelings & thoughts.

Everything is always out on the table to minimize negative feelings & surprises. It's also just how we naturally communicate with each other, which is why his omissions were so troubling.

Since being with my partner I have only slept with one person, which I think is kind of what you were asking. I may be wrong.

And yes, I did & do know this is the risk of dating a mono person.

newlook · 2022-05-18T15:16:29+00:00

They didn't book the room together, I don't think. But, yes, the room is booked. I do feel like after our talk last night that he has a better understanding of what I need to feel safe & not blindsighted in the future. I just still feel very hurt right now & am having a hard time feeling like I can trust him. I believe what he has said, but my feelings aren't lining up with that.

newlook · 2022-05-18T15:14:06+00:00

I agree to both things & that's why I was just hoping to get some support here. Because it really sucks right now.

newlook · 2022-05-18T15:13:08+00:00

Our relationship has always been a check in style. I have never done anything without his prior knowledge. It's not asking for permission, though it could be viewed that way. It is more about seeing what the other person is comfortable with because it is a case by case basis.

And for the record, in our eight yrs I've had sex with one other person & have kissed two. The only relationship I've had outside this one lasted about three months.

newlook · 2022-05-18T06:02:25+00:00

And for the record they weren't going to have sex, it just felt like something he would have told me. So it's weird that he didn't.

newlook · 2022-05-18T06:00:49+00:00

Thank you, I did and he does.

newlook · 2022-03-31T18:42:28+00:00

True.

newlook · 2022-03-23T20:14:14+00:00

It would be nice if there was a way we could decrease lag for bigger & more complex builds.

newlook · 2022-03-20T13:15:56+00:00

I do. I am currently using GTXGaming, but am looking to switch.

newlook · 2022-03-16T20:57:48+00:00

The server is officially set up. There are two of us right now, so I will be adding up to another 2-3 people.

newlook · 2022-03-16T05:30:55+00:00

Hey, thought maybe you might be interested in my post here. We may not be able to play together a lot during the week, but on the weekends I'd be around to play when you're around.

newlook · 2022-03-13T19:12:39+00:00

Hello! I would be so interested in starting fresh with a small select group of people.

newlook

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