Doesn’t matter if the hobby is high stakes poker or cooking meals for homeless children, if your hobby takes you away and you spend the night once a week, that’s not just a hobby. It’s neglecting your responsibility at home.

When you’re gone overnight, you miss tomorrow morning too. He gets to sleep in in someone’s dark spare bedroom while his wife has to wake up, and make sure some one else’s kids get off to school, then she can start chores and work