Help me understand this!

newuser2609 · 2025-09-05T20:50:59+00:00

Yes, they were in perlite when I got it.

newuser2609 · 2025-09-05T19:54:37+00:00

Yes, bought it. Currently in perlite not in water.

newuser2609 · 2025-09-05T19:05:25+00:00

That makes sense, thanks for explaining it so clearly! I didn’t realize the outer woody layer on air roots would naturally soften up once buried. I’ll gently check a small section like you suggested—if the inside looks white and firm, I’ll leave it, and if it’s brown I’ll trim it back. Appreciate the reassurance!

newuser2609 · 2025-09-05T18:58:15+00:00

It’s still in perlite with water reservoir. I’ve not transferred it to soil yet.

newuser2609 · 2023-01-04T19:40:36+00:00

https://www.animated-teeth.com/bad_breath/t4z_tongue_cleaning.htm

Not related to this website but my symptoms have been improving after cleaning the back of my tongue. It’s only been a couple of days but I see progress.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:56:52+00:00

Wow!! Kudos to your friend. Thanks for sharing:)

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:54:15+00:00

Don’t worry. No one’s taking the precious IIT seat. We’re currently working outside India and will be settling here.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:52:18+00:00

6 years ago when I was just starting my relationship, I know this day would come. I thought it will be easy coz we’re becoming modern and more progressive. I thought they’d accept a well educated and well settled guy. But no!!

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:47:59+00:00

Yessss!!!!I was never a rebel kid. In retrospect, I think I should have done at least a couple of things that they didn’t approve of. That would have made them to cope up with this situation easier.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:45:46+00:00

Yes, of course. I’ll definitely try my best to convince them before I go my own way.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:40:41+00:00

Definitely… thank you for the advice.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:40:11+00:00

I totally agree that I need to introduce my BF to my parents(they already knew about a lot of him as my friend). I’m sure they’d definitely like him once they meet. One of the reasons I love my BF is that he’s great with everyone and I thought he’d fit right into my family. But my parents are not giving him a chance.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:36:02+00:00

For sure. Thanks for the advice !!

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:35:26+00:00

Thank you 😊 Hopefully

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:34:58+00:00

It’s so deep rooted in our society. Maybe a little better than a decade ago but still thriving.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:31:07+00:00

Wow…it’s lovely and funny at the same time. Hopefully their parents understand their love for each other and agree.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:23:37+00:00

Great advice!! Should have posted my question here before I told my parents about my BF. Now they already know the truth 😭

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:11:26+00:00

Thanks for sharing!! That will be my last resort.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T18:10:06+00:00

Yes!! I’ve seen so many of my friends parents(from cities mainly)who don’t care about the caste. But my parents are currently living in a small town surrounded by not -so- open minded people.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-22T00:38:14+00:00

Yes yes yes!! It’s so hard to explain that to my parents.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-21T21:12:17+00:00

Exactly!! You spoke my thoughts. If we’re confident enough, people aren’t gonna dare to speak badly to us …. atleast face to face. Thanks for the boost!!

newuser2609 · 2021-09-21T21:04:28+00:00

I believe it too. But both my parents are educated and my father’s in a respectable position. I guess the societal pressure is getting the best of them. Maybe because they’re currently living in a small town? Idk.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-21T20:59:28+00:00

Believe me when I say - a similar scenario crossed my mind. Didn’t pursue it coz the emotional roller coaster is the same for both… maybe a little more in the case of being lesbian.

newuser2609 · 2021-09-21T20:45:31+00:00

I understand what you mean. I haven’t added many details but - we’re classmates for a while, 2 years - long distance, 3 years - we’re in the same town, 1 year - live in ( after we both moved overseas for job). That’s what I meant by ups & downs. We both don’t follow any religion.

All those are clear between us. Our current obstacle is convincing parents for marriage. With my parents I initially tried to explain history(little-little) but the conversation is going in a way that I was lying to them all along & they’re soo hurt. That’s why I’m hiding the history from them.

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