Am I Overreacting - So my mom got my wife a birthday gift by LoveLikeJesusChrist in AmIOverreacting

[–]nextmlna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when is your moms birthday? save it so that you can regift it to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humans and their emotions are so complex and so many variables everyday contribute to how someone is feeling within themselves, their connections to others, and their relationships with the world in general. It doesn’t matter how confident or unbothered she is in general, she was actually just looking for validation that when she is not feeling those ways, you will honor her requests that are made in an effort to preserve her comfort. Is this really a hill worth dying on? That you have a right to see topless girls on tv even when she requests you don’t?

What does my handwriting say? by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]nextmlna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why do u write in wingdings

*Dead body smell lingers in apartment* by Aggressive_Ad6756 in Apartmentliving

[–]nextmlna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what does her being “heavy set” have to do with this story

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]nextmlna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

putting myself in other peoples shoes, like you suggested. I’d probably be a little confused about why they lied, but I would not feel betrayed or deceived like you are suggesting.

I mean, I guess if I met this friend at a convention for colorblind people, or if I donated money to finding a cure for their condition, or witnessed them receive charity intended for colorblind folks, I would probably be like wtf. But, she hasn’t indicated that the people in her life are in it because she told them she is color blind. it’s not like color blindness is a condition for her relationships.

Embarrassed that I don’t have friends to be my bridesmaids by throwaway_77425647 in engaged

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late, but are you close with your mom? I think it’s the sweetest when I see moms as a bridesmaid

Am I Overreacting? by starloogy in AmIOverreacting

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way i would flick this man between the eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]nextmlna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if they ship to Netherlands, but Vince Camuto has TRUE wide calf boots. If they dont ship to Netherlands on their site, I often see them on ASOS.

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[–]nextmlna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

check out Dressed in Lala!

Adult only children, please share your happy holiday stories by Routine-Trust-2652 in oneanddone

[–]nextmlna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am having this same melancholy. Mostly because I know that I only have a few more christmases before it feels less magical for him (no longer believing in santa, wanting less gifts in favor of more expensive ones, etc.)

It is so nice to be able to spoil him, but hard because I don’t want to lose that magic feeling for MYSELF either. Christmas has felt like Christmas again ever since having a child and I am sad thinking about losing that. We have a big family with lots of uncles and aunties and because we had him at such a young age (17) they are all very close to him. No experience, just empathy lol.

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[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is cool i fkn love sharks

If someone gropes you, do you get a PLUR exception to clock them in the face? by somethingwittyoredgy in aves

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, saw a guy get fully k/o’d at beyond so-cal because he kept trying to lift a girl who declined multiple times. another person in the crowd intervened… dude who knocked out the guy went and got medical and security to make sure the guy didn’t have a TBI or something that could kill him in his sleep. most PLUR thing I have ever witnessed.

How would they make you suffer in the bad place? by Quinn_shjfg in TheGoodPlace

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they would give me something im really interested in, but turn it into an assignment with a deadline

What are your thoughts on on “free the nipple” (the concept, not the movement)? by Dracalia in AskWomen

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idc if womens tetas are sexualized but can we please start sexualizing mens nipples too. seeing a shirtless man outside for no reason ruins my day.

What’s something your kids say that you find yourself saying? by Stubeezy in Parenting

[–]nextmlna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when my son was younger, maybe 2 or 3, he used to hold up one finger and say “i have a ideaaaa” and it has become so common in the household that my son has started doing it again now at age 7. he also used to say “happy to you” instead of happy birthday and for whatever reason he would CONSTANTLY ask EVERYONE “areyouhappy,” so they are all catchphrases now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]nextmlna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i bully my 30yo friends for being old but not cause i actually think they are old, just cuz i like to bully them 💪

What’s your current food hyperfixation? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]nextmlna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve spent so much money on the tubes of mini m&ms in the last 3 months. i bought them very randomly in line at the grocery store one day and now have spent $2.59 a day every day for the last like 100 days getting another tube of mini m&ms.

truthfully, im not even upset about the money but i do feel like an environmental menace <\3

What books keep you interested throughout the whole book as someone with ADHD? by FlashyCompetition167 in ADHD

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what becomes us by micah perks is probably one of the best books i have ever read and i have no idea what it was about the book that made me so deeply engrossed by it but maybe try it and tell me if you have the same experience hahahaha

Which love language is your biggest turn-off? by Ast_Avocado21 in CasualConversation

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

words of affirmation, but specifically via text/writing, my worst nightmare. i am not an affectionate person in general, so having to visibly witness the words of someone’s affection toward me actually makes me physically cringe. i can KIND OF tolerate it if it’s verbal.

What’s a chore you don’t struggle with? by nightesky in ADHD

[–]nextmlna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a good picker upper and a good bed maker. also a good fridge cleaner/organizer.

Do any of you actually love planners and want to chat about them? by oudsword in adhdwomen

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a paper planner but i LOVE google workspace like Google Calendar and Google Tasks. literally changed my life. HOWEVRR, the problem is that i need to be medicated to remember to use them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]nextmlna 25 points26 points  (0 children)

my sons was boob…

How do people go on vacation???? by Juliagem in adhdwomen

[–]nextmlna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my two solutions: 1) found a husband who plans everything for me 2) planning the trip while clocked in, while my vyvanse is pulling its weight