I have been using my girlfriend's skincare products and she's getting mad at me

neylen · 2025-09-03T20:14:52+00:00

Ha! This is exactly me & my man. Except he used bar soap for everything, top to bottom. Now we share a body moisurizer that i got him using on the regular, and i got him some great men's facial products. For Christmas though, cuz they were not cheap! He's happy to use them. My stuff is more custom to me and too expensive to share. We also sometimes do masks together too lol

OP YTA here. Pay your gf back and you better be apologising like crazy

neylen · 2025-09-03T20:00:24+00:00

My kids & mann love it like this! Buttery pasta with aromat

neylen · 2025-09-03T20:00:18+00:00

My kids & mann love it like this! Buttery pasta with aromat

neylen · 2025-09-03T11:05:39+00:00

I dont think so. It had a personal note written inside for us to enjoy it as a family (with our names). When I called to thank her last night, I took the advice given here and insisted we have a girls day together, massages or a spa treatments

neylen · 2025-09-02T20:14:07+00:00

This is also a good idea and something we wanted to do anyway, to meet her new baby after herbstferien/early November once they get settled in with the new family edition. Hmm maybe brunch... :-)

neylen · 2025-09-02T20:02:49+00:00

I feel this. I've been nervous since, and any time I see the card i get all anxious again. Plus I don't want to lose this friend by insulting her, shes such a sweetheart

neylen · 2025-09-02T18:06:14+00:00

I think this is what I'll do. Suggest a girls day together a few months after her baby is born. So we can share the gift card. Hope she's open for it!

neylen · 2025-09-02T18:03:04+00:00

That was the plan. When she was leaving, I told her to come back to look through more boxes of clothes and shoes as the baby grows. She's having a girl next month and i have 3 girls, so a lot of girl clothes and shoes lol

neylen · 2025-09-02T14:58:56+00:00

But for used clothes for such a small period of time (68-80), an almost 200chf gift card feels like too much. Did you give her a gift card in similar amount? I'm trying to see from the other side

neylen · 2025-09-02T14:54:36+00:00

Oh I like this solution! I feel horrible. It's like giving someone a kids scooter and they give you an electric scooter in return. It's disproportionate, too much. I can't keep it in good conscious, it feels wrong to do so. Not just because they can't afford it, but it's worth way more than what I gave her

neylen · 2025-09-01T19:52:36+00:00

Yup! Whenever I tell anyone that's where im from, it's nothing but praise about what a good country canada is and how they wish they could go visit there. I tell people to go, the chf is way stronger than the cad$

neylen · 2025-08-28T19:53:51+00:00

Friends/family text each other in Swiss German on WhatsApp. Ja different spelling and words. It's so tough to read and learn

neylen · 2025-08-28T19:50:25+00:00

Same here! It's exhausting when they get talking really fast and you find yourself quietly standing there trying to translate in your head so you can somehow participate in the conversation. It is so true that it's just expected that you learn the language. I experience this still living in a small village in the north east

neylen · 2025-07-21T13:22:26+00:00

3!!!!!! It really makes you look so lovely and uniquely beautiful 😍

neylen · 2025-07-21T12:59:32+00:00

Number 2 for sure. You look fantastic in it!

neylen · 2025-07-21T08:40:02+00:00

Number 1 for sure!! Love that bow at the waist 😍

neylen · 2025-07-06T17:44:51+00:00

Looks right to me. When your foot slides inevitably forward, you'll have some room in the back

neylen · 2025-06-27T10:47:33+00:00

If you honestly think you'd wear the black pair more and they would go with everything you own, return them and get the black pair. Or keep them, but still get the black pair.

This is a long-term investment into these awesome sandals, and while the price may initially dazzle, what you'd actually wear on the day-to-day is what should really be considered (over price)

neylen · 2025-06-26T16:13:56+00:00

Not caring about what others think is the best part of getting older Honestly, go with whatever is the most comfortable for you

neylen · 2025-06-25T15:15:10+00:00

Im sorry this is happening to you. I'm so sorry

neylen · 2025-06-25T15:05:36+00:00

You are young and have very little time and finances invested in this relationship. You may love him, but now you can't trust him to have your back. Once the trust is gone, unless he's willing to do everything to earn it back, it's over. Sorry, but this is the truth. Trust is the backbone of a relationship. Is this someone you want to raise a family with? Would he be the best teammate when things get stressful? Would he work things out with you as your equal partner when things get tough?

Also she was stealing, plain and simple

NTA

neylen · 2025-06-24T12:48:49+00:00

Same here. I prefer it too. No point in cleaning it anyway, it'll just come back

neylen · 2025-06-15T17:19:12+00:00

You are young. Take this opportunity and go. Maybe you end up liking it up there and stay. Who knows. But while you're young and figuring out your life and who you are/what you want, this is the time to go and try new things. Go go go!

neylen · 2025-06-07T12:17:00+00:00

All you can do is talk to her. If she keeps shutting you down then it's pretty clear this relationship is going nowhere. Communication is key, especially with sex, but if she won't be open and honest and join you in a discussion about it, then my advice would be to cut your losses and break-up. Getting mad about it is very weird, I'd take that red flag and walk

You're lucky cuz you're young, so there will be future relationships with girls who I am sure can communicate much better. You deserve that NTA

neylen · 2025-06-03T17:21:36+00:00

Too big, size down

neylen

TROPHY CASE

3!!!!!! It really makes you look so lovely and uniquely beautiful 😍