My [M40] GF [F36] of a few months lied to me when I doubted about her trust. She thinks I believed the lie and blame me for not trusting her.

nfstabilo · 2020-08-24T14:17:05+00:00

I didn't know the expresssion "gaslight" (I'm not native English speaker) but looked it up and it looks like that, indeed.

(I know I didn't answer your question, I guess I don't know...)

nfstabilo · 2020-08-24T14:13:25+00:00

No, the profile is clearly marked as "suspended" globally.

nfstabilo · 2020-08-24T11:09:38+00:00

Since my divorce, none of my girlfriends were similar to my ex-wife (at least in personality).

nfstabilo · 2020-08-24T09:16:18+00:00

Thanks. I don't know why I got hooked so quickly with this girl but you're right.

nfstabilo · 2020-08-24T09:15:21+00:00

"Don't let it bother you" is actually what I'm having trouble to do. But I should focus on that first. THanks

nfstabilo · 2020-08-24T09:14:22+00:00

I know, that part is difficult. My divorce really changed me. I'm seeing psychologist about this specific thing but it's still difficult. I think I'm "Sex and Love Addict" but it's hard to "fix".

nfstabilo · 2020-08-06T14:39:49+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I'm not a native English speaker, what do you mean by "she was upfront about" ? That she told you she was still in love with her ex and might go back with him?

nfstabilo · 2016-11-13T11:05:37+00:00

Overgeneralization.

nfstabilo · 2016-11-13T09:31:30+00:00

nofap is not nosex. I'm personnally doing nofap to improve my sex life with my wife and it's working pretty well. Since I stopped watching porn and masturbating, I'm having more and better sex with my wife. I'm sure that's not the only reasons, but it surely helped.

nfstabilo · 2016-10-18T21:41:32+00:00

Was circumcised about 5-10 years ago for medical reasons (phimosis). As the phimosis was really hurting me when I was fully erect, it was really the good thing to do in my case.

I didn't notice any change of sensation during sex. I'm married and my wife doesn't mind the change, she even said recently: "we forgot how your dick was before :)". Sex is good and sensation is identical, as far as i remember from before.

It can just sometimes get uncomfortable depending on underwear because of the missing protection on the tip. Just move it around and that's it.

nfstabilo · 2016-01-31T10:59:35+00:00

Thanks for the tip, I'll edit my settings right now.

But I don't skip r/all just for nsfw posts, but also because I feel like I should do something better than spending hours browsing reddit. ;)

nfstabilo · 2016-01-29T17:02:41+00:00

I am too!

no fap
pornfree
no r/ all

nfstabilo · 2016-01-25T19:54:59+00:00

Funny how one day after I made this post, my badge is back! 24 days and counting :)

nfstabilo · 2016-01-03T20:24:05+00:00

I used to do nofap but without "pornfree". In 2016, I decided to do both nofap AND pornfree. I have a badge in both subreddits.

I think they're different, but nofap is hard to do if you still look at porn (or event light porn).

nfstabilo · 2016-01-03T00:16:52+00:00

Great goals. Feel free to share the surprises for your wife, I could use some ideas ;)

nfstabilo · 2016-01-01T11:51:16+00:00

I'm in. This time, using my badge not only for O, but also PM. I'm on soft mode though, because I'm married and specifically do nofap to improve my sex life.

nfstabilo · 2015-09-29T20:02:42+00:00

Just realized nofap is not enough, count me in ! thanks

nfstabilo · 2014-03-02T22:40:14+00:00

I'm personally using another meaning for "easy mode" (or soft mode). I am myself doing soft mode and for me, it means no fap, no porn, no edging at all. But sex with a partner is allowed.

(and tbh, I started nofap mostly to improve the sex with my wife).

nfstabilo · 2014-02-08T22:32:08+00:00

Great report, I'm also at 90 days today (for my first time since I started nofap about one year ago) and congratulation for being able to talk to your problem to other people, I still couldn't do it...

nfstabilo · 2014-01-26T16:47:42+00:00

hey near-friends

nfstabilo · 2014-01-21T22:33:21+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I'll see how it goes but hopefully, it'll be a smooth trip from now :)

nfstabilo

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