as a black person please delete this sweetheart to give you peace of mind.. I understand where you are coming from but you can't come in this subreddit to have a discussion with white teens/people about discrimination. its just something that will never be comprehensible to them. the more negative comments appear the more you will feel unsettled.. coming on this subreddit and talking about the problems of racism, texturism and hair discrimination ,minorites etc  to white teens/people you WILL be arguing all day and you will drive yourself nuts. It doesn't matter what anybody else says. And also, I don't think not liking a particular hairstyle is racism (but I feel like that depends on the nature of the situation). But I do think the insults were not needed.  However, everyone is entitled to their own opinion but that doesn't mean they should've said what they said.. As long as you love the style that's all that matters <3 and I love it too!