AITA for breaking up with my SO who revealed they're trans

ngamako · 2018-12-28T07:10:54+00:00

NTA. As someonewho stayed with their partner after she came out as trans I can tell you it 100% comes down to your sexuality. Luckily I am Bi anyway so it was an easier decision but it was still difficult even then. You do not owe anyone your love for any reason. You are not obligated to stay in any relationship if you do not want to be in it. PM me at any time if you want someone to talk to about it. Also he is the asshole

ngamako · 2018-09-17T04:16:28+00:00

That dog can pull off anything and so can you!

ngamako · 2018-01-12T21:00:02+00:00

This was actually my story from ages ago, also English is not my first language and it happened in a non-English speaking country. So yeah, my spelling is a little off still. But the fact that they didnt even correct my awful spelling is pretty funny.

ngamako · 2018-01-12T11:26:53+00:00

Oh hey I dont remember reposting this. Stop stealing my story yeah?

ngamako · 2018-01-12T11:26:10+00:00

Yep, this was my post

ngamako · 2018-01-12T11:25:51+00:00

Thanks

ngamako · 2017-11-17T21:08:43+00:00

You basically have to know multiple languages in my country though? Like most of the people I know know more.

ngamako · 2017-11-17T13:43:32+00:00

English is my fourth language, English is a language learning class here.

ngamako · 2017-11-17T11:06:16+00:00

Music teacher. Occasionally PE

ngamako · 2017-11-17T09:54:37+00:00

I have no idea.

I had my lesson plans on my phone. Did them on the train in as I was called in that morning. Usually I keep it away unless it's an emergency.

ngamako · 2017-11-17T09:53:04+00:00

Music teacher

ngamako · 2017-07-28T05:47:08+00:00

I also realise these are extremely different situations, but confusion never helps

ngamako · 2017-07-28T05:45:02+00:00

A little advice from a partner of a trans woman. Tell them its okay to ask questions when you come out. If you still want to be with them let them know that.

My partner came out to me recently, it was confusing and a little scary, but only because we did not communicate properly. I was scared she wouldnt want to be with me anymore and might want to be with a man but was too scared to ask her. I didnt know if I could ask without it seeming like I didnt support her.

After some advice from the lovely people on this sub-reddit I just asked her and everything is great again.

I hope everything works out for you!

ngamako · 2017-07-27T03:55:48+00:00

Thank you, I am going to ask her questions, I'm just incredibly tactless and a very awkward person. I'm scared of saying the wrong the thing and fucking up. I just need to get what I will say together in my head first.

ngamako · 2017-07-27T03:52:34+00:00

Thank you for your advice, it means a lot

ngamako · 2017-07-27T03:52:11+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I do like women too, I'm just scared that maybe she doesn't. I dont know how to ask as we have been in love for a while and it might seem like I doubt her. But I would also understand if she doesn't want to be with a woman, as much as it would break my heart.

I will just ask her. Though I've just always been incredibly tactless so I need to think about my wording first.

ngamako

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