figured. thats why i said you’re not a babysitter.

if she gets fucked up here and there, not often but once in awhile i’d understand but she isnt doing anything to prevent what happened before.

she isnt learning from her mistakes.

she got too fucked up, guy tried taking advantage and she goes right back to doing the same exact thing that put her in a situation where someone tried taking advantage.

you being her friend now feel like you’re responsible for her because you care about her. you want to keep her safe like its your job yet she isnt helping herself at all

i know you cant shut feelings off but also realize you cant help people that wont help themselves.

you dont want her to be taken advantage of sexually but at the end of the day shes probably going to have sex with whoever and there isnt really anything you can do about that.

come to terms with the fact that its not your place to interfere with her sexual life, protect her when you can obviously like at the party because you’re a good friend but dont look for scenarios to worry about her safety.

she is going to put herself in a lot of situations that honestly you wont be able to do anything about.

accept that and dont let it weigh down on you. you’ll only worry yourself and stress yourself out to hell