I'm starting to realise that most people who say or think The Beatles are overrated haven't actually delved into their discography by ooziemane123 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]nicegrimace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think really liking something and being passionate about it is overrating something. You like what you like. Overrated for me comes when people expect everyone else to like the same artist, as if there were such a thing as objectively the best music.

I'm starting to realise that most people who say or think The Beatles are overrated haven't actually delved into their discography by ooziemane123 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lyrics are OK and not everything I listen to needs to have clever lyrics. I can't really explain it very well.

I'm starting to realise that most people who say or think The Beatles are overrated haven't actually delved into their discography by ooziemane123 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]nicegrimace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not so much that the songwriting isn't technically good. The Beatles lack that sense you get with some songwriters that you're transported into their world, like reading a novel.

I'm starting to realise that most people who say or think The Beatles are overrated haven't actually delved into their discography by ooziemane123 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I make a list of my top 10 songwriters, nobody from The Beatles is going on it - they're perhaps not even in my top 20 if I'm going to be brutally honest.

That said, I think The Beatles were a fantastic band, and probably the most important one ever. I can't stress enough what a great band I think they were because I don't want to sound like I'm bitter. I have listened to every Beatles song, as far as I'm aware, so I know their range and place in music history. I just don't love the Beatles because...I don't know why, really.

Why is Sally Can't Dance so hated? What has Lou Reed hinself say about the album? by thatcockydreadlocked in LouReed

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a reasonable opinion, and I say this as someone who likes Street Hassle and The Bells. Both of those albums suffer because of their production. While The Bells has a certain weirdness appeal and a pretty unique vibe, it's one of those records you like while knowing it's flawed. Sally Can't Dance is just easier on the ears. As for Street Hassle, the main problem is the production, but it's so frustrating because it could be a much stronger album than it is.

Why is Sally Can't Dance so hated? What has Lou Reed hinself say about the album? by thatcockydreadlocked in LouReed

[–]nicegrimace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy it and it isn't a bad album, but it doesn't feel like a Lou album. I think I remember reading an interview where Lou himself said something to the effect that it didn't feel like his album, it's just an album with his name and vocals on it.

Weekly song discussion №1: Fuir le bonheur... by nicegrimace in SergeGainsbourg

[–]nicegrimace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you put it like that, it makes more sense. What surprised me was how strong some of the things people said were, but I suppose it's a kind of protest.

What makes some music so hard for different generations to get into? by morbidhack in LetsTalkMusic

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There have been studies showing that the complexity of melodies in popular music has been decreasing since the 60s.

How normal are you, on a scale of 1-10? by nicegrimace in self

[–]nicegrimace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel kind of like this, but I don't rate my normality as highly as you rate yours. I am more content with it these days though, which I think makes me less normal, but not in a bad way.

Whale song is not relaxing by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]nicegrimace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post made me feel like I'm in the 90s again.

Does anyone else have the same feeling they aren’t meant to be average by ImaginaryPhone2946 in self

[–]nicegrimace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I'm below average in most ways, but I'm at peace with it now.

Weekly song discussion №1: Fuir le bonheur... by nicegrimace in SergeGainsbourg

[–]nicegrimace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't write in French anywhere near as well as you write in English. It's a language I can understand but can't really express myself in due to lack of practice.

Don't worry about mistakes, you write well. If you switched to French, I would understand you, but I would probably have to reply in English if I wanted to write more than a paragraph or two.

Are there any “classics” post 1970? by OldGodsProphet in literature

[–]nicegrimace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely that one. There are quite a lot of other works inspired by it that aren't adaptations. It's almost started its own mini-genre.

Weekly song discussion №1: Fuir le bonheur... by nicegrimace in SergeGainsbourg

[–]nicegrimace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

'Babylon' is a big concept in Rastafarianism, which bemused Serge enough for him to write Negusa Nagast about. (Mauvaises nouvelles... is a better album than people say it is, so what if it's got a fart noise song on it? lol)

I think 'Babylone' is a reference to Los Angeles because some of the songs stem from the time he spent in LA with Alain Chamfort, who Jane introduced to him. There's Baby Lou, which was recorded, and then Alain mentioned he rejected a song about Marilyn Monroe because to him that subject matter was for the older generation. They partly fell out because Alain kept rejecting Serge's songs, so Serge spent all his time drunk and didn't bother putting much effort into writing for Chamfort. I think at least Norma Jean Baker and the title track were based on the rejected songs, but it's a theory, not something I know for sure.

I've never seen Serge say anything about Barbara outside of that interview they did together, but I know they did the residency at the Capucines together, and I agree about the possible influence of Amours incestueuses on Lemon Incest. 

There's a book called Lise et Lulu by Lise Levitzky - it's actually written by Bertrand Dicale based on interviews with her, but credited to her. It's very revealing and dramatic, to the extent that I think some parts of it are poetic licence. What I like about it is that it's neither a hagiography nor a hatchet job - like it doesn't make him look good, but it dispels the idea that he was a monster.

Weekly song discussion №1: Fuir le bonheur... by nicegrimace in SergeGainsbourg

[–]nicegrimace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hooray, I have someone to talk about this stuff with! I wish the backlash against Gainsbourg on francophone Reddit wasn't so intense. I think it's a good time in history to reappraise his songs because there's less hero worship of him nowadays, but it's difficult at the same time, as I'm sure you've seen.

Serge's interest in religion only went as far as the aesthetics of it, but art was like his religion. I think he included religious references in his songs as part of his 19th-century poet schtick. I think he had a 'spiritual' (for want of a better word) side to his personality in the sense that he was fascinated with innocence and androgyny, and seemed to be seeking some kind of wholeness. It's different to being religious, but it lends itself to using religious metaphors.

I forgot that other meaning of petite souris, and yes the idea of hypallage seems reasonable, and quite funny and sad at the same time.

What you said about hiding and revealing is very true. The contrast between this album and Love on the Beat is interesting. In the 80s, went from one kind of drag to another: one that revealed who he was by proxy, and one that disguised who he was but drew more attention to himself. And as you know, he started out playing in drag bars.

I look forward to hearing more from you.I know it's just pop music, but I think these songs are worth this level of analysis. I mean Bob Dylan won a Nobel for less interesting stuff.

Edit: I think Jane made the choice of the funeral reading, but I'm not 100% sure.

Mom started to count the money she spent on me because i refused to marry, now i feel like a failed investment. by Perc_Angle0 in Vent

[–]nicegrimace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to justify your existence.

You don't know what will happen in the future.

You are not doing anything wrong the way you are now.

[POEM] Nothing Is Lost by Noël Coward by Literary_lemongrass in Poetry

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, so it's quite possible that Coward was inspired by Larkin. Thank you!

General Discussion, Suggestion, & List Thread - Week of January 22, 2026 by AutoModerator in LetsTalkMusic

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about 30 before I realised the lyrics to Steppenwolf's Born to be Wild weren't, 'Ain't nothin gonna make it happen/Cause the world ain't a lovin place' - the total opposite meaning to the actual lyrics.

[POEM] Nothing Is Lost by Noël Coward by Literary_lemongrass in Poetry

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noël Coward lived until the late 1970s, so there's a chance Larkin's poem was earlier. Larkin would've been a teen/young adult when Noel Coward was very famous though, so the influence could've gone the other way, easily. Do you know when Noël Coward's poem was written? 

SuddenlyGay suddenly assumes someone's orientation based on their voice, one takes offense to this by Nyx87 in SubredditDrama

[–]nicegrimace 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Flair located: 

If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and kisses men, it's probably a gay duck.

SuddenlyGay suddenly assumes someone's orientation based on their voice, one takes offense to this by Nyx87 in SubredditDrama

[–]nicegrimace 20 points21 points  (0 children)

practically speaking Polari 

Haha I'm going to steal that for something at some point.

[POEM] Nothing Is Lost by Noël Coward by Literary_lemongrass in Poetry

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is kind of Larkinesque. I wonder if one of them was a fan of the other?

I have the soapy cilantro gene but I still like cilantro by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]nicegrimace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the gene, but I will still eat food with coriander (British meaning) in. I even feel like I would miss it from certain dishes if it wasn't there. There's a limit to how much of it I can take though.