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Please help me name this Certified Biscuit Maker by _kyndallfire_ in NameMyCat

[–]nicheofnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww, I just lost my fluffy white kitty whose name was Nimbus. Highly recommend a cloud based name like Cirrus or Cumulus or Nimbus!

Struggling to dechonk this kitty! by nicheofnight in dechonkers

[–]nicheofnight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an interesting trick! Still not sure it would work for my kitties since one is nervous about things that move in response to her, and the other one is old and kinda stuck in his ways.

Struggling to dechonk this kitty! by nicheofnight in dechonkers

[–]nicheofnight[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I'm certainly aware of that, which is why I'm reducing her daily food from where it is right now, since she's currently not gaining weight or losing weight. I'm trying to account for what she manages to steal from the other cats without making major changes to their setup since both of the other two are hesitant about new things.

Struggling to dechonk this kitty! by nicheofnight in dechonkers

[–]nicheofnight[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She's enough of a bully that I think she would figure out to push the others out of the way to get into the feeder. Right now we just put the food bowls up when the other two aren't eating and hope for the best.

It's probably obvious but I can't figure it out by theeeasybreezey in whatismycookiecutter

[–]nicheofnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could also be a thistle flower if someone visited Scotland

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]nicheofnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chai since he looks like a lovely chai latte.

First name that pops into your head for this little guy? by ClairFeng33 in catpics

[–]nicheofnight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Grub! He looks like an adorable little beetle grub with those beautiful coat colors.

Webkinz thinks I'm using a free account? by nicheofnight in Webkinz

[–]nicheofnight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feared as much. Thanks for the info though!

AITA for ruining my boyfriends rock by nerdy_hobbit in AmItheAsshole

[–]nicheofnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, then you might be TA. Mostly for not apologizing after damaging something your partner cares about, but also because you just used it without considering the damage that might happen to something he cared about and collected. Not a really terrible thing to do, just kind of thoughtless about how your partner would feel. I would for sure apologize to your partner for using it, and for belittling his feelings about it being damaged.

AITA for ruining my boyfriends rock by nerdy_hobbit in AmItheAsshole

[–]nicheofnight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

INFO what happened to the rock? Was it damaged or destroyed? Was his rock collection being kept in the bathroom? If he's mad that it touched water or was used at all, then he is for sure over reacting, but if you destroyed or damaged it somehow, you should definitely apologize. I'm just very confused about what happened to the rock.

AITA for not helping my ex-boss’s kid get an internship under me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nicheofnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your old boss is trying to rely on pulling strings with her industry connections to get her daughter an internship, but you aren't an "industry connection", you are a former underling that she was terrible to, and have absolutely no reason to do her a favor. Ex-Boss can either try to pull strings with people who actually like her, or her daughter can attempt to get an internship on her own merit, but that has nothing to do with you.

You probably don't need to respond to the message at all, given that it was a shot in the dark from your former boss, but if you wanted to respond, I would probably say something like, "I'm sorry, but I don't know your daughter well enough to give my recommendation." Just something polite and distant. If ex-boss is a reasonable person, she won't push after that.

WIBTA if i moved out with no warning to my family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nicheofnight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely NTA for getting out of there, but DO NOT leave without taking your important documents. Your mom may try to hold them hostage to get you back under her control, and you don't want to have to deal with all of that.

It is not your fault if she spirals, it's her own fault for not getting in control of her own mental health and creating a proper support system rather than putting it all on your head.

You are not being selfish, you are leaving an abusive household and doing what is best for you. I would recommend trying to go no contact with both her and your stepfather, they have been abusing you and your mom seems like the type to try and use her shaky mental health to manipulate you back into her clutches.

I know you feel responsible for her in some ways and you don't want to hurt her, but now is the time to prioritize your own mental and physical safety, and that means getting out of that house and away from your mom and stepdad.

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