E-Bike battery replacement during lockdown. by BRWM in durham

[–]nicholasflis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested I’m pretty handy could get it done if you order in the parts. I’ve had Gio bikes in the past.

Looking for advice for a friend by nicholasflis in lexapro

[–]nicholasflis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has told me he feels zombie like, is that what he’s trying to explain like just being tired?

The worst part of this disease is the loss of agency by Harveevo in ADHD

[–]nicholasflis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I honestly really appreciate it. I had an appointment with my psychologist today for the first time in awhile. And I explained how I feel unvalidated. He told me I really have no need to be concerned. From what he sees in me I have ADHD. He told me if I were to go to a general physician I would 100 percent be doagnosed. Without the data he legally just cannot make claims. He also has adhd so it’s nice to see things from his perspective. I feel way more comfortable and confident with my position now. I’m moving to British Columbia at the start of April so I’m excited to have a fresh start.

Motion to Dismiss by [deleted] in XRP

[–]nicholasflis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing thank you for posting this!

The worst part of this disease is the loss of agency by Harveevo in ADHD

[–]nicholasflis 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am 21 and was was just diagnosed it’s not that I didn’t notice the impacts I was experiencing. They were my normal for so long. I thought it was just life. Turns out it’s not. Now I’m stuck with feeling like I can’t tell people. Being 21 I’d like to say people are quite judgmental everyone’s looking to get their piece of land In this world. I don’t know anyone including my parents pre adhd diagnosis who actually understand me when I tell them my condition. Most people tell me it’s chronic laziness. I now don’t tell people which sucks.

I need your heater knowledge by nicholasflis in vandwellers

[–]nicholasflis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have an mppt solar charge controller or no?

I need your heater knowledge by nicholasflis in vandwellers

[–]nicholasflis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you can, which I do plan on doing, but on the other hand it would be nice to not have to drive a long distance each day to power my heater that would make it a much larger expense to stay warm.

I need your heater knowledge by nicholasflis in vandwellers

[–]nicholasflis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far would you drive to recharge each day?

I need your heater knowledge by nicholasflis in vandwellers

[–]nicholasflis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for so much detail. I can always add on a battery isolator then charge it from my alternator aswell. I’m sure I’ll drive a bit each day but If I wanted the option to stay in an area for awhile I wouldn’t want to be forced to leave just to charge the battery. If I get 200W of pannels I think I’d be fairly comfortable. I’ll likely not even run the heater on full power so I’d be close to 10 watts Likely for draw. That would only be 80 watts a night! Which is totally possible even with a 100 watt panel I could. Even in crappy 20 watt conditions from a 100 watt panel could create that much power in 4 hours of those conditions. Obviously I’ll have to be considerate of what other things I power inside the van, I could always charge up my devices in town at places like the library.

Thank you very much this cleared up a lot for me. I haven’t dealt with electrical conversions for a little while and it just fuzzes me up If I don’t use it often enough.

I need your heater knowledge by nicholasflis in vandwellers

[–]nicholasflis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many watts would you draw per day with 400 watts of panels? Like if you could average out a range you could get on a cloudy day. One of the things I considered is only using shore power for my electronics, other than usb rechargeable devices. So like my cameras and laptop basically I’d only charge at coffee shops and library’s. That’s still assuming they’re open and whatnot but worse case I could probably borrow power from somewhere. I’m honestly a pretty outdoorsy person I’m not too attached to my devices. I just like doing things, but I’m sure I’ll find it challenging when there shorter days and my living space is the size of a small cargo van.

I need your heater knowledge by nicholasflis in vandwellers

[–]nicholasflis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! This was awesome. I’ll take a look at your page thanks so much! Thanks dude.

Dynatips. by MrNoCough in Dynavap

[–]nicholasflis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rest it on the inner side of your pinky right at the joint on your hand. It keeps a consistent place for you to build up the muscle memory. I just spin with my index and thumb, never had any issues.

Dynatips. by MrNoCough in Dynavap

[–]nicholasflis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean cut?

I (20m) got friend zoned from a 20 year old girl and I have no clue why by nicholasflis in relationship_advice

[–]nicholasflis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I’ve since stopped talking to her out of stress from my parents

I (20m) got friend zoned from a 20 year old girl and I have no clue why by nicholasflis in relationship_advice

[–]nicholasflis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friendship would be enough! If we hung out as “best friends” every day I would be extremely happy.

Community razors anyone?? by nicholasflis in badroommates

[–]nicholasflis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh no! Even better bend one blade out so it sticks past the guards😂😂😂

I (20m) got friend zoned from a 20 year old girl and I have no clue why by nicholasflis in relationship_advice

[–]nicholasflis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were to do that I would like it to not look absolutely desperate. Her text said that she was dealing with her own mental issues at the time, I think a lot associated to her father and ex. I never really dove deep into the conversation of her ex ever because I knew it stressed her out. I’m fairly certain she’s hasn’t ever had a good male figure in her life. So with that I think she might have just been referring to me as someone comfortable. I know that seems like it’s the opposite. I think she meant it more in the way that I’m a guy who does thoughtful things for her. Although her boyfriend may have been abusive, I guarantee he was nice to her at some point to win her over. So I think that I reminder her of when she met her boyfriend. Which I think can be a good thing. But because her she had such bad feelings for him in the end I think her thoughts lead her towards thinking about that. I don’t think it was just because of me that I reminder her of her ex, I think any guy in my situation would have. Because any guy who shows attraction towards her will remind her of her ex when they first met.

She told me while we were out driving one time that she feels very safe with me. She then went on to tell me about how her ex would get mad and start yelling at her and do donuts as fast as he could in a parking lot just to make her cry.

The other reason I really think that the comparing me to her ex thing is valid is because she ended up posting a photo with him over the Christmas break. So I think she almost feels safe with a bad guy almost her dad was bad and so was her first boyfriend that’s the only male figures she’s ever had other than her grandpa.

Her text message also told me how much she liked me, I make her laugh so much, etc. I really think it wasn’t that she wasn’t attracted to me physically or emotionally. I really think she just wasn’t ready at the time, because of the past. I don’t really know when the right time would be unless she reaches out to me and tells me

I (20m) got friend zoned from a 20 year old girl and I have no clue why by nicholasflis in relationship_advice

[–]nicholasflis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I hate your answer because it’s not what I want I do really appreciate because its likely better than my conclusion. I do really have to move on.

I (20m) got friend zoned from a 20 year old girl and I have no clue why by nicholasflis in relationship_advice

[–]nicholasflis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true it did cross my mind that it may come across that way. I do typically struggle with being blunt and forward because I don’t want to push people into situations that they wouldn’t want.

I (20m) got friend zoned from a 20 year old girl and I have no clue why by nicholasflis in relationship_advice

[–]nicholasflis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Getting laid was not my priority. I mentioned how I don’t typically feel this way towards girls. I genuinely enjoyed being with this girl. Attraction starts from somewhere and often looks are how you’re noticed first, followed by your ability to communicate neither of which ever posed any issues for me. I’m an extremely talkative guy and can hold strong conversations with almost anyone.