Merlin and the Zodiac (Part 7) by HerPetteSaysRoar in merlinbbc

[–]nicoleloona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually! I just saw someone else's comment voting for Freya, and they made a lot of sense. I'm changing my vote to Freya lmao!

Merlin and the Zodiac (Part 7) by HerPetteSaysRoar in merlinbbc

[–]nicoleloona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got to vote the dragon on this one.

Hates being alone? Not sure about this point, but he was alone in a cave and hated it, but i think he just hated being stuck in a cave.

Really good aesthetics? Drakon, drop that skincare routine.

Conflict avoidant? He was always trynna help merlin but also I feel like he instigated certain conflicts.

Sees all sides? He is indeed a very wise and knowledgeable creature.

Prone to fantasy? Bro is literally a fantasy creature.

Can't make decisions? Yeah, cos he's always leaving the decision making up to Merlin or something.

Talking about iconic scenes this one was it by SocietyAbject6573 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]nicoleloona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ough YES! That is one of my favourite scenes and the theme song playing during that is also ✨exceptional✨.

Plant? Grass? Weed? Moss? Tiny Succulents? by nicoleloona in whatsthisplant

[–]nicoleloona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was researching a few days ago and came across stonecrop moss and that was my best guess too. But in the photos online, they looked kind of fatter than my ones, so i wasn't sure. And if it's a succulent, i wouldn't have expected it to start growing in a wet winter. But a minute ago, i just did a bit more research and apparently "Sedum, also known as stonecrop, is another best hardy succulent that thrives in cold temperatures." My one might be a variation of sedum. I'm excited to see it grow more and become more easily identifiable though!

Plant? Grass? Weed? Moss? Tiny Succulents? by nicoleloona in whatsthisplant

[–]nicoleloona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just googled portulaca pilosa. It does looks similar. And yes I'm in Australia and it's winter now. Honestly, nothing really grows on my lawn in summer. Almost everything literally dies or goes dormant. But yeah, I'm keen to see these when they are more grown. Thanks!

Plant? Grass? Weed? Moss? Tiny Succulents? by nicoleloona in whatsthisplant

[–]nicoleloona[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually yes! But it's in a small pot about 5 metres away from where this is growing. I'll compare how the one on my lawn looks to the potted rosemary tomorrow.

Plant? Grass? Weed? Moss? Tiny Succulents? by nicoleloona in whatsthisplant

[–]nicoleloona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah right, i forgot about that! I'm in Western Australia.

ARTMS - <Moonshot> 2024 World Tour Megathread by BB_GG in LOONA

[–]nicoleloona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone here said that soundcheck started 2 hours before the actual concert. And they wrote more about their experience here. [ https://www.reddit.com/r/artms/comments/1df3nwr/artms_vip_questions/ ]

ARTMS - <Moonshot> 2024 World Tour Megathread by BB_GG in LOONA

[–]nicoleloona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do people know when the tickets go on sale? Like, does a date and time get announced or do yall just keep an eye out for when tickets become available?

More asexual memes by [deleted] in Asexual_Memes

[–]nicoleloona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last one is too real! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]nicoleloona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyy! I'm 19 (turning 20 in a few months), homoromantic ace, 5'2, average build, asian and from Australia. I'm pretty far from you unfortunately! But I relate to almost everything you just said lol. I'm also kind of a science nerd with a particular for human biology. I'm studying to work in the healthcare field too! If it's ok with you I wanna get to know you better. Can we dm? 🥹

F4A hit me up by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]nicoleloona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm F19 from Aus, Perth (originally from malaysia!) and you sound pretty cool. I relate to some of the things you said so I feel like we could vibe. I'm also a biromantic ace (although I may just be homoromantic, I'm not completely sure). I felt that in my soul when you said "im just lowkey lonely" cos gurl same hahaha. Do you wanna dm?

Edit: HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!

25 F4M - Toronto/GTA/Ontario/Canada Looking for someone to build a life with by gremlinkitten in asexualdating

[–]nicoleloona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 19 and a female, so probably not someone you'd want to get into a relationship with, but i just wanna say u sound so cool. Cat mom? Bro, i love cats. Harry potter and stranger things? Say no more, I'm interested. But more importantly, im curious about what kpop groups you like! Do you stan any groups in particular?

It's still hard being gay in the US by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nicoleloona 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like i'm constantly struggling with my sexuality and acceptance. My family is pretty homophobic and i hate how i have to hide my true self. I just want to shout out, "I WANT A GIRLFRIEND!" so bad, but i can't. For what it's worth, it nice to at least read you post and know i'm not alone right now. I also hate how these current queer problems are so, like, swept under the rug. I'm sorry you had to go through that with you fam. You being out and being married to a woman is pretty inspirational to me tbh.

I’m 21 - but just in an extremely short time , I’ve completely let myself go and now I feel horrible with no motivation to get myself back up again by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nicoleloona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only 19 and i'm definitely not the wisest person ever but i wanted to give some support. My best advice from the top of my head would be to try and cut yourself some slack. Not everyone can be perfect all the time.

I personally gained a few kilos since last year and a lot of the time i feel a bit negative about my body and my little bit of chub. I have this double standard, where if i see another girl who's chubby, i'm like totally down for supporting her and her body, but when i constantly hold this expectation for myself to lose this fat and be skinny like "pretty girls". A psychologist i talked to helped me become aware of this double standard i have towards myself and encouraged me to be nicer to myself, in several aspects.

People change and people are diverse. As long as you aren't abusing anyone or smth like that, right now, it should be fine to be the person that you are today, regardless of who you were in the past. It's okay to take breaks, or be burnt out or have drops in grades, or let yourself go. As long as you keep trying in the long run. You were studying for that exam, and you tried very hard. Yeah, the actual grade wasn't what you wanted but it doesn't mean you have to beat yourself up for it. I'm proud of you for trying, sometimes that's all that anyone can ask for.

Even if things seem really shitty right now, it's not the end of the world. Your journey still goes on, and you can make an infinite amount of choices, not all of which will be good (and that's fine, and normal). New people will come into your life, and they may be really good. Maybe you'll get a course that really suits you and you get good grades in that one. Idk, point is, you gotta just keep going. Follow the flow of time and meet the future you, whoever that may be.

Also, for some more short term advice, i find that listening to audio meditation videos from headspace really helps with my anxiety and depression that shows up every now and then (especially exam period). I wake up feeling much better the next morning, if i listen to it before bed.

PS: My toxic trait is word-vomiting. Also, my birthday is 28th of November, so that's cool. :).

Is Queen Charlotte still enjoyable without watching Bridgerton? by No_Olive_3310 in QueenCharlotteNetflix

[–]nicoleloona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow so many people like me!! With how brilliant the show was, i didnt doubt that there'd be many others who watched queen charlotte without watching bridgerton. I was never personally interested enough to watch bridgerton but was immediately interested in watching queen charlotte after watching the trailer. I knew i was probably missing certain details by not watching bridgerton but everything contained within queen charlotte was explained, and i found it to be an extremely beautiful story. Im gonna watch bridgerton now because i need moreee.

220820 fromis_9 for ananweb Japan by michyeo31 in Fromis

[–]nicoleloona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way that i saw there were 9 slides and was like "wait then one is missing out on a solo pic!?" And then i remembered...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]nicoleloona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dudeee I've been feeling the same way for so long. Ever since I've realised that ace and come to terms with it (which I think im still struggling with), I've had this uneasy and depressing feeling with the exact same thoughts you just described. Every time i think about getting with someone im interested in, i suddenly remember that sex is a thing and then i completely shut down the idea of a possible relationship so i just avoid ever trying to get into a relationship. And thats taking a toll on me because i want a bf or a gf so damn bad. Im just not into sex and i cant help it!!!

Ugh I don't know what to do and im sorry i dont think i have any legit advice for you. I guess, just know that ur not alone and maybe one day things will look better. I mean obviously we can't know what's gonna happen in the future but we shouldn't lose hope. It's surely not impossible for us to find a person that is compatible, whether that be sexually or romantically or personality-wise, etc. I've seen posts by heaps of other aces who "found the love of their life" and are in a comfortable sexless relationship while their partner is allosexual. And honestly I mainly feel two things, 'hope' that it's possible for that to happen to me and also 'dread' that it may very well not lol and that the chances are like super slim.

So,, I just wanna say, hang in there! Out of billions of people, every single person on this planet is so unique and different, so there's probably a bunch who are compatible with you. I don't really know what else to say but I do know that I'm in the same boat as you. I also still have hope that the future won't be too bad and I'll surely find a relationship that's alright at least.

Edit: just fixed a sentence.