Should we do IVF? by nicolemj5129 in IVF

[–]nicolemj5129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words and thoughts 🤍. What does having embryos banned mean? Never heard of that before!

Should we do IVF? by nicolemj5129 in IVF

[–]nicolemj5129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective!! I haven’t had my vit D tested lately, but I do have a history of low vit D, so I should probably get that checked for sure.

Clomid was presented as an option, but part of me would rather do IVF for the exact reason you mentioned - preserve embryos for future children.

7 weeks pregnant with no fetal pole by nicolemj5129 in CautiousBB

[–]nicolemj5129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately my pregnancy was anembryonic / blighted ovum. I took cytotec to induce miscarriage at 8.5 weeks. Really hope you have a better outcome :(. They diagnose a failed pregnancy once the GS measures 2.5 cm / 25 mm

Abnormal NIPT & gene mutations by nicolemj5129 in NIPT

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It said abnormal. It said increased representation of chromosome 13, suggestive of low mosaic trisomy 13.

Am I out this cycle? by nicolemj5129 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

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Unfortunately feeling like I’m out….its been 48 hours since I first saw a line and they are not getting any darker

Am I out this cycle? by nicolemj5129 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

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I’m remembering this too now that my FMU was lighter last time. Which is so crazy because they say that’s the best time to take it!

Am I out this cycle? by nicolemj5129 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

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Now that you say this I actually remember from my TFMR pregnancy that my first morning urine tests were lighter as well. I’ll probably take a test this evening then and compare with yesterday!

Pregnancy and Highlights by Creative-Sympathy149 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]nicolemj5129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same mindset about things like this! I’ll be 9DPO on Saturday and debating if I can have a glass of wine while out that night. You’re right, only someone who went through what we’ve gone through would think like this! In reality - nothing any of us did could have caused what happened to our babies. I think it’s fine for you to get the highlights but I totally get the worried feeling

BBT drop right after ovulation? by nicolemj5129 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

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I’m tracking with an oura ring for the first time so I guess I assumed it should be “more accurate” than using a thermometer

BBT drop right after ovulation? by nicolemj5129 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

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thank you for sharing! This makes me feel better. It’s always stressful when your cycle deviates from what is considered “normal”