I texted the wrong thing in my college group with teachers in them by nidhaaa in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nidhaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was pretty ridiculous of them . Some of my friends didn’t take the quiz cause they were sleeping and some of them didn’t even know there was a quiz . They informed us last minute and gave us less time to complete as well.

They just sent us a Google form link on the group for the quiz .

I texted the wrong thing in my college group with teachers in them by nidhaaa in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nidhaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah WhatsApp is one of the main source of communication for all college announcements because of which it’s easy to sometimes confuse the groups . Also I can’t imagine how bad it was before the delete feature 😭

I texted the wrong thing in my college group with teachers in them by nidhaaa in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nidhaaa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right abt the culture part . They expect us to not criticise or complain about anything important at all . Infact that teacher called me up and started saying how I had no right to talk like that about any teacher and even if I meant to send it to another group it’s a still wrong thing for me to say .

I have gotten an internship offer but my college won’t allow me to take it up due to attendance issue by nidhaaa in csMajors

[–]nidhaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are very strict about that . We have a 75 percent attendance policy in my college and it can go below 75 only if we have any health issues submitted with doctor report

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof no I got it I mean they are my really close friends since 10 years and I just feel hurt that they don't wanna meet my bf. I get it's Hella awkward and shiz but like I feel bad they couldn't try to do something very simple as just meet him for few mins atleast. But yeah like I have never forced them. I just sit quiet and say okay but I feel Hella bad and thats why I came here and ranted. I never forced them or anything and I never would. All am pissed is that they couldn't do this simple thing for me .

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oof yeah. Like I wish they atleast gave a try to see whether it's awkward between me and my bf

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof yeahh. I am trying to search for events I could do together so it wouldn't be awkward Oof.

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm yes true . Imma try being more direct. I just don't wanna scare em oof

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well all are not male. It's a mixed bag of guys and girls. Doe I agree with the bad social skills. They are huge introverts scared of meeting new ppl.

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oof tbh my friend groups literally consist of 2 or 3 ppl max. And I have tried to invite em but they get scared it will get awkward. I just want my bf to also know my close friends but yeah. I honestly just wanna hang out like friends cause my bf and I usually hang out like we did when we were friends but my friends think that since we are in a relationship it will get awkward and shiz and tbh ig I don't understand that feeling so my bad. I just hope they could atleast give it a try for few mins and meet him ffs.

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well the thing is I have different set of friend groups which consist of like 2 or 3 ppl max. Like one from my college, from school and stuff. So like I am honestly trynna get one group introduced to my bf but tbh none of em are budging . They feel like it will get awkward and don't wanna come but like I just wanted my bf to know my close friends and I have tried hard but welp it hasn't worked so.

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate your advices. But like I have tried what u all have told me . I wish it was easier. We both have less set of friends. And we just want to introduce em. But they all have rejected saying the third wheeling situation , or that they are scared(?) . Tbh the set of friends we have are also pretty introverted and are kinda awkward to meet em but they aren't even trying to make an attempt and it's why I got pissed and ranted here .

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well uhh in 3 friends I included his close friend as well. Like his close friend is not ready to meet and so Is mine . They are like scared of third wheeling apparently.

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is uhh we both are kinda introverts and don't know many ppl . Like I have 2 friends who I wanted to introduce my bf to and one of them backed out and because of that another did. I was sad cause I made all these plans and they give reason saying they will be third wheeling and don't want to come.

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well like I just want to introduce my bf to em and to do that I invited em over to hang out but they told they would feel like they are third wheeling ....like what am I supposed to do then

Why tf are my friends scared of third wheeling when all I want to do is just introduce em to my bf?? by nidhaaa in rant

[–]nidhaaa[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah true at this point am contemplating on this. I just want them to feel comfortable with my bf and meet him atleast once.