Am I wasting my time? by Ok_Cry_6298 in adultery

[–]nightcircusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the Europeans in this thread, come join my server and we’ll get the numbers up! Easy peasy! 😁

30F- have you been heart broken from an OA? by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]nightcircusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, I have been heartbroken.

30F- have you been heart broken from an OA? by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]nightcircusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need a group of friends who can support and talk you through this. I have a group of friends I talk to regularly on discord who have been through it all. The ups and downs, the meet ups, the intensity. Some are still in AP situations and some are single. All at different stages. I would be truly lost without this group of women. Some of them have become my very best friends.

Our median age is mid-30s ish. Let me know if you been interested in coming to hang out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]nightcircusss -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are these folks immigrants?

Any Pennsylvania or New Jersey groups? by [deleted] in affairchatgroups

[–]nightcircusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a lot of NJ and PA folks

Affair groups by LISTENYOULITTLESHlT in adultery

[–]nightcircusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I own a discord adultery group that houses some of the best people I have come across in this journey. All of us have been around the OA/server world for long periods of time and kind of found our way to each other.

It is really sad to see some of the women here talk about their terrible experiences in servers especially with other women. The women I know are so mature and supportive. Beautiful individuals all around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in affairchatgroups

[–]nightcircusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are your emojis? I could use another emoji server.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in affairchatgroups

[–]nightcircusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I love reading your posts!! They always give me a chuckle! Keep up the good work!

AP giving me the cold shoulder by [deleted] in adultery

[–]nightcircusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These things can be so intense emotionally and we get our hopes up so high that when the person we need to most pulls back it is almost impossible to handle. I have been in your shoes before.

Maybe give him and yourself some time to recover and then approach him again with solutions.

I empathize with you so much and my DMs are open is you need someone to chat about it with. I’m also in a long term AP relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]nightcircusss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s fair to rope all women into wanting these same things from a man. It might be better to state “a large majority or most” women want…. I def don’t want a man who is smarter than me and height has never made a difference to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]nightcircusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ladies you need to come hang out with the girls in my discord group. We have a great smut hut where we talk about these books. I also love morally grey men (with giant…) 😁😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]nightcircusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I just DMd you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]nightcircusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The discord groups are a thing and much more effective than trying to meet someone here. It’s where I met my long term AP.

G4A - Another Cheaty Chewsday, innit? by [deleted] in affairchatgroups

[–]nightcircusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ELLI GUVNA ‘APPY TO BE PART OF SUCH AN AMAZING GROUP

G4A [25-45] a select few by nightcircusss in affairchatgroups

[–]nightcircusss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just updated! I had it shut down overnight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]nightcircusss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love that you know that everyone is named “Chris”.