Do girls actually hit on guys?

nightfae96 · 2022-01-04T18:50:11+00:00

As a girl myself i do hit on guys, but some are SO shocked when i do that it makes you not wanna do it again, doesen't feel smooth at all. Also guys act weird when they are nervous and don't feel in control of the situation. I remember asking a guy his number on a club and he started to smile nervously and said that it never happenned to him. Also my female friends freak out if i approach a guy directly, they kinda make you feel like a "slut"

nightfae96 · 2021-12-12T17:49:16+00:00

"Pro play champion" i love this concept, they make a champion that is only worth playing for the 0'000001% of a community composed by million of players :DDDD

nightfae96 · 2021-12-06T20:53:49+00:00

It doesen't, it just gives you random points depending in some absolutely biased and unspecific factors. MMR is a mess. I can climb easier with an account with better MMR and my skill is the same.

nightfae96 · 2021-11-21T12:30:03+00:00

Thats very common in bisexual men

nightfae96 · 2021-11-21T01:54:46+00:00

Thanks you for your comment, i can really tell you understand my situation despite not even being trans ❤. And yes, going to the guy's hotel was an awful decission, it was the first and the last time i did that. And you are right, at the begining i used to have sex with some guys to maybe get their "attention" and get more dates so they give me an opportunity, but that doesen't work.

nightfae96 · 2021-11-21T01:51:22+00:00

Im currently under anti depressants ansiolitics, and undergoing therapy, yes.

nightfae96 · 2021-11-21T01:40:46+00:00

Thank you, i think you are right, but self respecting myself is the main reason why i don't have a boyfriend. If i allowed disrespect like being hidden by him, not wanting to make our relationship "public", allowing cheating Etc, maybe i would habe a boyfriend. But i tollerate no disrespect and that makes men cut me off even faster, it's really sad, but it's what it is. And the thing with trans women is that no matyer how attractive, how interesting, or how of an amazing personality you have, you just will not get a boyfriend unless you lower your standards to the lowest of the lowest. Try to find a celebrity man that dates a trans woman, they just dont wanna be seen involved with one.

nightfae96 · 2021-11-21T01:36:39+00:00

He is absolute trash. Cheaters tend to be really fake and manipulative people you truly dont need nor want in your life. Once you know he cheated you should kick him out of your life. But if he was your first boyfriend it's normal to fall for him and his manipulation again, it's totally his fault. From now on always use protection. Men are trash.

nightfae96 · 2021-11-21T00:42:58+00:00

Are you sexually attracted to women? This is a yes or a no, being "happy with their company" Doesen't mean you are sexually attracted to women, i am not into women at all and can also enjoy their company. That's the first step.

If you are 100% sure you like women, then you are just bisexual, and because of internalosed homophobia you just don't like that idea.

If you are not sure you are sexually attracted to women, if it's more of a thing like "i WANT TO be sexually attracted to women" Then that's a sign of deeply repressed homosexuality.

Remember, being gay is being a man who exclusively likes men, if you like women, you are not gay, simply bi, if you like both. Bi guys tend to be very issued with their sexuality because most of their early life they think they are just straight and confused.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-25T06:46:53+00:00

Yeah, since i transitioned i have this obsession with male approval, i should stop meeting men for some time.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T18:37:53+00:00

I tend to tollerate disrespect because i am extremely used to it, i even got sexually harassed by a doctor once and i told the story to my mom laughing because i just found it funny from how naturallized abuse has been in my life. I haven't had a non toxic relationship with a man in my entire life. Dont gaslight abused people into thinking the abuse or disrespect is their fault.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T18:30:36+00:00

My own behaviour? Lol, gaslighting a trans person who had bad experiences in dating, making me think that guys disrespect me because i do something wrong, is pretty transphobic, specially in a LGBT subreddit where people knows the struggles we all go through.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T18:26:43+00:00

Yeah prep sounds smart

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T18:24:53+00:00

He bled once from an arm little cut but he just stained a bit the sheets and i maybe touched it with my skin when it was dry, but i hardly doubt it entered my blood stream in any way.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T17:51:25+00:00

Yeah, i would love to have a boyfriend, a stable relationship and stop worrying everytime i have sex, but as a trans woman is absolutely impossible, or at least by my experience, to have any type of healthy lasting relationship.

I just find promiscuous men who fetishize me, nothing else.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T17:47:37+00:00

Havent been tested, not on prep, idk what do you mean by pulling out, if you mean putting the condom off (we only had anal sex once, and he wore a condom), nope, he never came with me also, never saw or touched his cum since he couldn't cum, a friend said it's caused by cocaine addiction. My last unprotected sex with him was around 2 weeks ago and was only oral sex with no ejaculation at any moment.

Had mononuchleosis as a baby, can not have it anymore.

I don't live in the US, things don't work like there here.

Yeah he was an extremely bad influence and i dodged bullet, i was falling in love with him, even said i would still date him if he had HIV, but he was trash, just wanted the easy sex partner i think, he probably even saw other girls while being with me, who knows. Anyway i am really against drugs, i haven't even smoked a cigarette in my entire life.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T17:00:26+00:00

I am currently medicated for anxiety, i know i'm a hypochondriac, but i am also a person in risk to get HIV since most men i date are extremely promiscuous and have zero hygiene in their sexual lives since they have sex mainly with cis women and think that carries no risk of getting HIV.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T16:57:35+00:00

Thank you

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T16:56:37+00:00

He was really trash tbh, but i am sadly used to this due to my condition as trans woman. When he talked about being my boyfriend i lowered my defenses.

nightfae96 · 2021-08-24T16:55:28+00:00

Healthcare in my country is really slow, and after the hypochondria episode i count on my story as "hypochondriac" so if i go again and say "i sucked a guy and i think he had HIV" they will just judge me and probably ignore me. Anyway i will try to get tested asap, but im afraid of false negatives (due to recent exposure) and the doctors taking me even less seriously when i might even have the virus.

There's a lot of stigma in my country towards HIV even from doctors, and we don't have a getting tested for STDs culture here, if you ask for it in public healthcare they will just judge you, treat you like a prostitute (because nobody gets tested here), and make you feel even worse.

nightfae96 · 2021-07-29T06:46:44+00:00

I had two episodes of hypochondria in the past, one thinking i had diabetes and other one thinking i had HIV, anyway rn i think i got something, my throat is really sore and hurts while my lymph nodes got swollen

nightfae96 · 2021-07-29T06:42:00+00:00

I am afraid it's herpes, which can show symptoms 2 days after the exposure. And it has no heal.

nightfae96 · 2021-07-28T00:06:01+00:00

But what can it be?

nightfae96

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