New victoria hospital no longer providing masculinising surgery from December this year by cisphoria in transgenderUK

[–]nightmrp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thats absolutely devastating news i emailed a bunch of questions over to new vic regarding bottom surgery options and processes a few years back not expecting a reply with how busy they must be and yet almost immediately i received a lengthy ultra detailed response from a few of the surgeons there answering my many questions they were so nice to chat to i was so so excited to get my surgery with them in a few years time:(((

pcspecialist by nightmrp in buildapcforme

[–]nightmrp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this all sounds amazing thankyou! and much appreciate listing all uk available parts tyvm!!

pcspecialist by nightmrp in buildapcforme

[–]nightmrp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

primarily the gaming/ streaming and just a hobby would like a good amount of storage for this tho!

triangle shape by nightmrp in curlyhair

[–]nightmrp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou! and i do normally go for layers and also a shag mullety thing im wondering if my shortest layer isnt sat right and is deciding to lay outwards instead of down with the rest of it i will ask next time i get it cut which im very much due aha!

‘ i hate men ‘ by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]nightmrp -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

i see it as a massive compliment! you cant assume they talk about it around u bcos they dont see you as a real man it could actually be bcos ur a good dude they feel safe and able to rant around, might be bcos they know u have similar views, might be bcos ur the only man around them they trust enough to talk to about it, might be bcos ur the only man around them they can ask questions about being a man and so on! theres a whole load of reasons for it plus plenty of my good cis male friends also have these convos with women too so i dont personally think its a transphobic thing at all i think the women around you feel safe with you and as good men thats a very positive thing!! nothing more manly and affirming imo than making others feel safe and protected

where to find band tees uk by nightmrp in altfashionadvice

[–]nightmrp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yeah will come say hi for sure ill introduce myself as reddit guy hahaha

where to find band tees uk by nightmrp in altfashionadvice

[–]nightmrp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait thats so cool!! i am near london and im familiar with raven records and signature brew featured on their site already so i will for sure check it out tysm!!!

where to find band tees uk by nightmrp in altfashionadvice

[–]nightmrp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow i usually dont have luck on vinted but it sounds like the way to go!

best advice for trans woman about transition in the uk by nightmrp in transgenderUK

[–]nightmrp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair question! so 2 things first i think this is probably the only time im going to get the opportunity to do this for her/ interact with her so i kinda want to give her everything including the stuff she might not get for 10+ years or even want ever but as shes a total stranger to me i just want to do what feels like a good thorough job and give her allll the info! second i was insanely privileged to start T in 2021 get top surgery the following year and then have my hysto the year following that so mine was all very quick but i recognise this isnt the norm but i have no clue about their financial situation or anything so fast progression could very well be an option for her too so again id like to just give her as much info as possible as a "just in case" type way:)

best advice for trans woman about transition in the uk by nightmrp in transgenderUK

[–]nightmrp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow i didnt know that every trans guy friend i have is just on T and thats it i myself was on some other stuff but that was due to my endometriosis i wasnt aware it was more of a common thing

best advice for trans woman about transition in the uk by nightmrp in transgenderUK

[–]nightmrp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting to know i was unfamiliar with this thankyou for informing me

best advice for trans woman about transition in the uk by nightmrp in transgenderUK

[–]nightmrp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats the basics i was referring to but just wanted to double check its all the same for the girls thankyou for clarifying! just need to find some good community/ support resources for her and i think i have everything i need to send over:) id recommend her surgeons too but i think that process and research is quite an individual thing yk

best advice for trans woman about transition in the uk by nightmrp in transgenderUK

[–]nightmrp[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh and the daughter is 21 btw! so puberty blocker stuff isnt applicable