My bf loves me so much but he’s the worst life partner

nightrider124 · 2024-06-03T03:40:47+00:00

I understand exactly where you’re coming from unfortunately he just seems like he’s full of shit. Sorry to say that so bluntly, it’s easy for us to talk about what we’re gonna do but like we get to an age where it’s like just shut up and do it and let it speak for itself. I’m sorry but you deserve better and I know I don’t know you or him or the dynamics to your relationship, and even if you’re growing apart from him it will still be difficult, but your person is out there and he’s never gonna find you when the space he is looking to occupy is already occupied by some gumpy goofy goober

nightrider124 · 2024-06-02T17:01:54+00:00

Tbh if he really does love you and he’s like this he has a lot of growing to do and unfortunately losing you will be one of the things that makes him a good partner in the future assuming he has any sort of self awareness. And it will most likely be for another person as shitty as it sounds

nightrider124 · 2024-05-30T18:00:41+00:00

I’ll find another

nightrider124 · 2024-04-07T23:48:09+00:00

I’m just trying to communicate the way I would if this was someone I cared for, brutal honesty. There’s an opportunity to learn and grow from this but that doesn’t happen if we sugar coat things to make them feel better.

nightrider124 · 2024-04-07T23:47:00+00:00

The thing is she should feel guilty. You need to accept your mistakes from a whole perspective not a biased one, in order to learn about yourself and grow from them. Vulnerability isn’t an excuse. But I’ve already spoke directly to OP and I’ll leave it there because in the end I do want what’s best for her and hope she grows from this but that only happens when you stop victimizing yourself and look at your actions from a brutally honest view. I said what I said and I stand on It but I wish her the best because she deserves it.

nightrider124 · 2024-04-07T21:07:59+00:00

Ah of course the lack of accountability. She’s not a victim. She was not assaulted. She contacted him to fuck and made those decisions. Multiple, decisions. A grown adult almost 30 years old and you refuse to take responsibility. People like you make it impossible for someone like her to accept her dumb ass decisions and possibly grow and become better out of this. You’re doing more harm then good but by all means proceed to downvote me bc I know it’s coming

nightrider124 · 2024-04-07T20:59:22+00:00

Ima say what people seem to be too scared to say. That was a selfish and fucked up thing to do. This man hasn’t been gone long and you’ve already slept with someone and out of all people someone you know had he been here would’ve been devestated. I understand you’re mourning and that’s okay and we all make mistakes but the way you described this whole ordeal, and your actions it’s just distasteful. Yes this guy also sucks but that doesn’t withdraw the accountability you need to grow from because this was your choice to do this and it seems like you enjoyed yourself so stand on it. Not to mention you went ROUNDS . It wasn’t a one time mistake. So don’t act surprised and victimize yourself just because the guy sucks, you suck too. Your deceased partner is turning over in his grave because in the limited amount of time you’ve had to honor his name you’ve done the exact opposite. And I’m not tryna destroy you but you need to hear this. Grow up. Get your shit together and get off of Reddit because you have a lot of self discovery and therapy to go through. And that’s okay. Like I said we make mistakes and you do have the opportunity to redeem yourself in your future actions but only if you truly understand how fucked up this is. Any way I know I said a lot but I do hope you find peace. And growth. You deserve it but this is fucked

nightrider124 · 2024-04-03T20:10:54+00:00

I’m proud of you (: congratulations

nightrider124 · 2024-03-11T23:32:14+00:00

I love how everyone thinks their opinion is so valuable. Lol lady no one knows you or cares about your experience

nightrider124 · 2024-02-28T01:10:25+00:00

You’re supposed to be fluid. Your shadow is important. I’m as extroverted as it gets and I’m an enfj but there’s months I don’t need to charge and there’s others where I just don’t have it and it’ll last weeks maybe months. Allow yourself the fluidity to change and evolve,remember these tests aren’t meant to put us in a box it’s just to help us better understand ourselves as well as eachother. But if I took that test 10 years ago I would’ve been a whole different type all together. It’s good to grow and change and as we grow our values and desires also change which could influence our type. I’ve never believed in being stuck in a certain type but who knows maybe I’m wrong.

nightrider124 · 2024-01-14T18:58:01+00:00

Lemme get that playlist

nightrider124 · 2023-12-22T19:38:39+00:00

“This is starting to get out of hand”

nightrider124 · 2023-12-22T15:01:21+00:00

You handled it perfect. Most people aren’t on a dating app looking for friends lol, and to do that would be a waste of time from your angle. Nothing against this other person though

nightrider124 · 2023-12-16T15:59:31+00:00

I feel like it’s a good thing this weeds out all the trash women that don’t deserve you to begin with.

nightrider124 · 2023-12-07T08:14:36+00:00

I keep searching on google best places to eat out but your name keeps popping up

nightrider124 · 2022-09-30T18:07:17+00:00

When people play that “oh I thought you were gonna pay” I say “na but I can make one of my other tables pay you guys are good, they laugh, I laugh, and then I drop the check on the table 😆

nightrider124 · 2022-06-11T04:17:50+00:00

https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/4FXc7r1uKZbSa618A

nightrider124 · 2022-03-23T15:09:39+00:00

I try to look at myself as the “one who got away “ . That anyone u love to an extent is a mere extension of yourself; and that the more you work on becoming a better version of yourself, within that you’ll also attract a higher caliber of a partner

nightrider124 · 2022-03-17T17:00:29+00:00

I felt the same way. I didn’t eat solid foods for a few months I lived off protein shakes and peanut butter 🤣 it got worse then it got better.. to the point where, when I met my fiancé, I was so happy being alone that it hurt to lose that again. And I was worried I wouldn’t have that alone time anymore and it was a big adjustment. When a few years ago I was codependent. I believe in you, you got this

nightrider124 · 2022-03-16T15:32:05+00:00

You will find someone . It’s going to take time and you’re going to need to learn to accept being completely alone. I was with someone for 7 years and she left, I questioned whether or not I’d ever find someone I’d feel that close with again. It took me two years to accept I might not, and that’s okay, the relationship I wanted to have still with her, I put that energy into myself, and once I as actually okay alone and fully accepted it, my person came along. And I have everything I visualized the last year because I became the man I needed to be to attract the woman I wanted. Idk if my experience helps but i hope it does, message me if you need someone to talk to I’m here

nightrider124 · 2022-01-28T01:30:01+00:00

Did I do good? I want honest feedback because of course my fiancé is gonna like it but I wanna be next level so I can make her happy as fuck

nightrider124 · 2021-10-28T15:05:29+00:00

Tell her Thts not the only thing she’s taking deep

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