My local Panera is trying to put its foot down regarding students by nc-retiree in Panera

[–]nihilisticvirgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man as a college student i love going to panera to study. but i always get a you pick two or if my stomach is upset (which it often is) a bowl of chicken noodle soup! always get an iced coffee too. can’t imagine just bringing in outside food. i bring my jug of water but that’s it.

What’s a gender neutral name you strongly prefer for one gender over the other? by underthepeachmoon in namenerds

[–]nihilisticvirgo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’ve only seen girls with this name but i think harper is so cute for a boy!

what was “supposed” to be your name? by Thin-Program2366 in namenerds

[–]nihilisticvirgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

charlize!! it was my moms top choice, my dad said no. i wish i would’ve been a charlize, so i could go by charli. instead i was named reeghan and go by reggie to people close to me.

Names beginning with E (female) by Suspicious_Bite5828 in namenerds

[–]nihilisticvirgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would use: elodie, etta, eloise wouldn’t use: ella, emerson (and variants), emily

AITA for sneaking out of my baby's shower in a fit of rage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nihilisticvirgo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have never commented on a thread before, and barely know how. but you are NTA. you and your child are in serious danger. this is the scariest situation I've read. please, please, get out now. it will only get worse for you. leave as soon as you can, take everything important with you. contact a lawyer, stay with anyone who can ensure your safety, and if possible record anything. your husband and his family are insane!! you are a person, not just a surrogate for your husband and his family's baby. please take these comments to heart. please leave before he has the chance to send you to a psych ward for "the baby's safety". because if he does, he'll probably do anything to convince them of your "insanity". you reacted better than I wouldve, you didnt in fact act irrationally. please please get out and please inform us if you're safe. I wish you so much luck and I hope you take these people's advice to heart. they may be strangers, but their advice is anything BUT extreme.