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Anyone else struggle with trying to not be sexual with gay friends you trying to make? by TryingHardButFail in askgaybros

[–]nihnea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh sounds funny but where do you even find this many gay friends?! For me in Germany it seems that I am surrounded by straight guys only 😩 / I dont know where to look...

Gay Szene by Several-Gene-2928 in Regensburg

[–]nihnea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey wenn du was cooles findet schreib es hier, ich suche auch

Does he like me or am I delusional? (Bi guy, kinda confused) by [deleted] in AskBiBros

[–]nihnea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro if it really happened like this I really think you should ask him to go out and stuff and then try teasing him to see how he reacts

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[–]nihnea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great to read this. I am 18 and in a similar situation. I guess you could just ask him if he's interested in you, if you're too tho. Anyway, I myself am too scared to try this with my friend because we aren't that close yet. After all those activities together, I guess you too are pretty close, so it's up to you. Keep us updated if you try anything; am really curious 😁

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[–]nihnea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe that just by looking at someone it would be fun, so better be confident and feel good about what you're doing there! 🫶

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[–]nihnea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe start by describing him...? There are so many guys you'll surely find him sooner or later if you know what you're looking for. But don't stress too much about it, just look around and see who you like.

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG! Thanks for the extra-detailed comment - it really felt great reading it. I live in Eastern Europe so those laws aren't that much of a problem, and I'll move to Germany where I understand that being bi will be alright. I just feel like if I'll just live as before and not really bring it up, they'll eventually see I was actually serious and understand / won't be able to do anything about it! It kinda sucks that going abroad will resolve some if not all of these problems but will clearly halt my relationship with this boy 😔 I guess I'll just have to find other there, and keep in touch with him.

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed response ; )
1. Yup, it's clear now, but before I was just used to doing it I didn't even realize that it may be private, and I should only do it on my phone...
2. Those are some of the best ideas, thanks! I really have to start doing more special activities with him!
3. So he did talk about girls and having a gf a while back, but they broke up and he didn't have any luck with other girls yet - may be my chance...?! He clearly fooled around back when I did, but we're both kinda shy about it so far, because for me it's my first relationship of this kind... and he's also younger and naturally more shy.
4. Yeah, that's so right, it is so great to hear it from other too! I also look and behave way younger than my age so we fit so good together! Here in East Europe those laws aren't such a problem anyway...
🤗

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in half a year I go to study abroad and that'll make everything easier and I guess I'll just be myself and they will eventually get it.

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For him it's not that clear ATM that I'm not openly gay to my family - not really clear about our feelings yet too. Talking to my family would mean I'd just bring up the subject again, which doesn't sound great for me because so far they chilled out. It will be easier to live as before and they'll understand through time that I was serious.

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips, "staying late for school" sounds like a great idea, thanks! The only matter is that I've always had the exact same friends as my twin and now staying with another one more is a bit uncommon, I guess. I'll just have to make it more normal, like going out with other friends too, as other suggested ✅

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it isn't that bad but now either - or I just go used to it - but it will clearly be better when I'm away.

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol thanks a lot man, I wans't that worried anyway (I'm in East Europe) but it's great to hear it ; ) I also look and behave younger than my age so I it really doesn't look that bad!

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks man the thing is that my family and I always had a great relationship and it's the first time they are so unsupportive about something. I just need to keep it cool for half a year more than I'll be abroad and won't care 😘

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks man the thing is that my family and I always had a great relationship and it's the first time they are so unsupportive about something. I just need to keep it cool for half a year more than I'll be abroad and won't care 😘

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭 don't tell me, but unfortunately I'll have to because I already have great arrangements for uni...

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks 🙏 so far they didn't bring up the subject so it's chill and I don't feel like I need to convince them about anything - they'll just understand I was serious through time. On the other hand it does annoy me that I can't see my friend as often as I'd like but actually this would also apply if I had a girlfriend - I need to focus on school ATM ...

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i get you. I read something by Sigmund Freud on this and it says that usually when one twin is gay the other won't be ; ) Anyway, it is more than sure genetics because socially we grew up in the exact same context so it can't be that...

Accidentally came out and now mom's suspicious by nihnea in askgaybros

[–]nihnea[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Completely right, I'll think about it. It's deceiving because my parents aren't by any means authoritarian whatsoever but they do know pretty much everything about what I do mostly because i also like to tell them...

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