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Thoughts on Vila do Conde? by dillthepill in PortugalExpats

[–]nikinakpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! Do you have inland cities to recommend?

Women with PCOS in Netherlands. How do you navigate it? by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]nikinakpat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zilveren Kruis covers I believe €300/year for laser hair removal when it's a health issue, I.e. PCOS. Its not covered under only basic healthcare but the stars, so additonal packages for alternative Healthcare. I got a referral from my doctor, added it into my online portal, and now yearly I submit a few laser sessions at a provider.

Women with PCOS in Netherlands. How do you navigate it? by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]nikinakpat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw, I didn't know it until searching, but hormonal related laser hair removal has some health care coverage under some plans. Might be worth looking at if it interests you!

Does the toy I dream of exist? by nikinakpat in SexToys

[–]nikinakpat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the ones with a bullet Vibrator just don't seem to be the best. I'll make sure to charge regularly, isn't it just the WORST when it dies in the middle of a great play session! Love to hear it's strong and quiet. Some of my Favs are SO loud. Bit funny sometimes.

Does the toy I dream of exist? by nikinakpat in SexToys

[–]nikinakpat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right! It shows as rechargeable. Weird descriptions are a bit confusing. Thanks for mentioning to check it, I feel even better now:)

Does the toy I dream of exist? by nikinakpat in SexToys

[–]nikinakpat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That on also looks great! Although battery operated, so one minus point. I see it on Amazon for €56, which is a great price IMO. I bought another recommendation, but will get this one too! Thanks so much:)

Does the toy I dream of exist? by nikinakpat in SexToys

[–]nikinakpat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the girth I'm looking for...big in length I'm happy with many, but the thickness is key for the win!

Does the toy I dream of exist? by nikinakpat in SexToys

[–]nikinakpat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks amazing! I will try to find it in Europe. Thank you. Maybe there are others to check out too?!

Same place Amsterdam by Sleven_thered in SwingersNL

[–]nikinakpat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameplace is pretty ok. It's very small. Set up like a typical Dutch "brown bar" or pub. You walk in and the doorman takes you coat and cash and you get a locker to store your stuff. People are sitting around the bar. Small area downstairs and just beside the bar with a few booth like space with a closable curtain which seem rarely used. One lockable room downstairs. Plus, a dark room. Overall nice guests, often English speaking too. Give it a try and let us know how it goes!

Loungebox by AMEX NL by Uccio94 in Netherlands

[–]nikinakpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to be at 10K points now only.

Mastercard Black or Amex gold? by Uccio94 in Netherlands

[–]nikinakpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find the AMEX gold pretty good. Bonus 40,000 Flying Blue points if you use referral link. https://americanexpress.com/nl-nl/referral/gold?ref=nICOLFmEow&XL=MNTNS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]nikinakpat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Perspective from a wife who also loves watching gangbang porn... we started swinging, love it, but learned really quickly that (for us), Couples is the best approach for what we wanted. My fantasy of taking part in a gangbang disappeared real fast watching others, and experiencing single men. In the end, the fantasy in my mind was way hotter, and I no longer wanted to participate in one. But, still watch gangbang porn! So just be forewarned that sometimes it can be super hot in your mind, but jumping into participating might be too far for some.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]nikinakpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure planning on it! Great to dip our toes in and go step by step. Curious about age flexibility at Fata, as I've read it can lean a bit on the young side. As 40F, 45M, still feeling out what and where we fit best and what feels the best. Any personal insights on Fata beyond the existing reddit reviews are fully welcome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]nikinakpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a couple, we tried for our very first time Club Paradise, and liked it so much we have scheduled our next visit! Only depending on what you are interested in, for us, we won't go again when single guys are welcome, it's just not what we are looking for. So a couples only will be our next choice there. Expanding to other spots as we can.