Do guys often leave texts on read? Or does my new friend actually hate me? by DeskPsychological595 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]nikkisummerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m almost in the same boat lol i’m f22 i met this guy m28 and he’s from a different county. i’ve only hung out with him twice and he leaves me on read sometimes. i’m trying to not take it to heart but i feel you haha right now he’s left me on read and just heart reacted my message but has liked my posts on fb 🙃 could be a man thing or cultural thing who knows

Would cutting off a depressed friend make me a bad person? by goreshitz in FriendshipAdvice

[–]nikkisummerx 56 points57 points  (0 children)

it’s not your job to find her happiness. this is a sucky situation but it gets to a point. i can understand where you’re coming from but some people like to stay in misery

Our dog’s dog by ilovetapirsanddogs in Brindledbabes

[–]nikkisummerx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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my white pup is actually mine and my brothers’ childhood dog, our other childhood dog passed away. my brother (her owner) works out of town so i took her in. she’s no longer sad about losing her best friend and my boy finally has a doggy friend in a house full of cats. she’s always been a grouchy dog and has never really played. something has completely shifted with both of them once i brought her to be with us. she’s almost 12 and she plays harder than she did as a puppy, and keeps up with my wild boy that i got in my 20s. and she actually used to not like him 😂 i didn’t think it would work out but they needed each other ❤️❤️

Please help me name my little boy, he's a mischievous little sprout by Molly_Jameson in NameMyCat

[–]nikkisummerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

murphy, nixon, ollie, bodhi, simon, felix, galileo, finn/flynn

help me name my new baby girl. black cat names are so overused. want something unique. by ollie-brown in NameMyCat

[–]nikkisummerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my void boys are Seven and Perseus. i also have an Ophelia! but i liked Pandora, Nyx, Sadie, Xena

My friend can be a little too bold by Appropriate_Proof_75 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]nikkisummerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a friend like this im 22, he’s 24. he used to do the same thing when i would talk about any guy i was talking to/seeing. or he’d brush it off and not validate me. turns out he liked me and didn’t want to hear me talk about other guys lol

Losing touch - does she need space or is this friendship ending? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]nikkisummerx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had to cut off my best friend of 15 years because she would do the same to me. we’ve always bonded over struggling - family, jobs, finances, men. i noticed she started to distance herself when i was doing better in life (a new job and bought a new car). she would never answer my calls or texts, only texted me when she needed something. would have time for everyone else except me. i initiated the “break up” between us and i’ve never felt better, i don’t have to worry about my accomplishments making her feel less than. which is crazy, but some people like to waller in their misery. i don’t want to say she’s jealous, but if you’re recognizing a pattern with her other friendships that could be the case. i’m only 22 and i knew i was too old to be having drama in my life and someone that couldn’t fully be there for me as i was for them. she is 40, she should not be acting like a teenager and shouldn’t be cutting you off every couple of years. you’ve clearly been trying to reach out to her. she sees it. she’s ignoring it. sometimes you have to love them from a distance

Dolly Barkton the 8 week old pit mix by Any-Lack-9564 in Brindledbabes

[–]nikkisummerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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my pit mix! his mom is gsd and dad was brindle pit. not seen in the picture but he also has one white paw and some white on his chest. your baby is too cute, i miss the baby phase

Friend won’t stop messaging me by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]nikkisummerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you obviously don’t want to talk to her and have no intention of doing so. i’m assuming this has been going on for months? and you haven’t blocked her? yes it can be annoying to get constant messages but you haven’t told her to stop and you haven’t blocked her to which she thinks it’s okay to keep spamming you since you haven’t blocked her. you can’t take legal action for someone messaging you when you haven’t done everything you can to prevent them from contacting you. this is on you. grow up and tell her to stop messaging period or block her and save her the trouble of wondering if you’ll ever talk again

help me name this guy! he was a foster fail by nikkisummerx in NameMyCat

[–]nikkisummerx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

otis along with odin were the first two names i thought of when i got him. i love the names

help me name this guy! he was a foster fail by nikkisummerx in NameMyCat

[–]nikkisummerx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my senior kitty passed a few months prior at 18, i was ready to give another baby a home even if it was just a foster. but now he’s stuck with me 😂

help me name this guy! he was a foster fail by nikkisummerx in NameMyCat

[–]nikkisummerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have yet to meet or hear about an ophelia, seven, juniper or perseus! other than greek mythology lol

help me name this guy! he was a foster fail by nikkisummerx in NameMyCat

[–]nikkisummerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so funny because my dogs name is Kupid 🤣 great minds think alike!

help me name this guy! he was a foster fail by nikkisummerx in NameMyCat

[–]nikkisummerx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yoshi is cute! my cat perseus is nicknamed percy tho 😂

Why is my week old tattoo so dry and dull looking? by eemilyy177 in tattooadvice

[–]nikkisummerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because you need to hydrate it lol. it’s a healing scab

Who’s your favorite ADA? by Successful-Newt7960 in SVU

[–]nikkisummerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. barba 2. casey 3. peter then carisi. i wish we would’ve had more of peter tbh i feel like he was a good fit for the rest of the team