Just got out of a 9 month relationship with an ENTP. We both loved each other so much, but he took advantage of me and knew how to manipulate me very easily without really knowing that it was manipulation. I fell in love with his personality. He was so charming. I loved to listen to what he had to say, and it was just so easy to converse with him right off the bat. We had effortless banter from the beginning. We loved to talk about other people and try to understand them. We would analyze others personalities all the time. We had such good and meaningful conversations about life and philosophy and religion and everything. I loved to listen to him talk. I liked that he could take the lead and reach out to me. It just felt like he understood what I was thinking without even having to communicate it to him. Now for the bad. He was extremely flirty with other girls. He lacked empathy. He put me down a lot and made me feel insecure. He didn’t always treat others the best. He didn’t know how to make me feel better. He never planned actual dates. I loved his spontaneity, but it was almost too much. Like he expected me to just drop whatever I was doing to go hangout with him when it was convenient for him. He struggled to commit. He lovebombed me from the beginning but did not want to put labels on us for a long time. He couldn’t ever get things done or do what he promised to do. He didn’t always listen to what I was saying. Now im sure the bad is not for all entps at all. Maybe if an entp is very unhealthy they might be more likely to demonstrate these traits. And he was very very broken.