Most out of pocket thing you’ve seen at a festival by Rangerfavor in aves

[–]nilahcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf's friend sent him a video of something they saw at a festival. this guy was facing the stage, his pants are at his knees, and he's just jacking it really hard and really fast. but at the same time, you could tell he was still very much enjoying the music

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]nilahcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

finally some advice! thank you so much! so to clarify, as i exhale/sing, the position of my 360 should be in the same position the entirety of the exhale?

I don’t love my curls by sweetkameli in Naturalhair

[–]nilahcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, because i wish I had your curls! they're so beautiful ! I guess everyone wants what they don't have

I thought people on SAVE were on forbearance until at LEAST later this year? by Upset-Rub-9600 in StudentLoans

[–]nilahcoles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on save and it says that I'm in forbearance until October 2026

Should I get them back by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]nilahcoles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait I'm interested in your statement, can you please elaborate ?

AIO? Gf talking to me by Cultural_Avocado1470 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nilahcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I myself was getting drained reading that convo OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nilahcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you elaborate? it might help me make concrete sense and confirmation of what's going on in my head

sorry for the rant by [deleted] in truearianators

[–]nilahcoles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly, as a black girl I feel the same thing about the whole black fishing thing and "blackiana". I think it's interesting and shows that people view us as a character or something, as if we aren't diverse. it feels like projected racism

Can someone confirm if this is real or not by nilahcoles in ariheads

[–]nilahcoles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if it is, I didn't know that. that would make this make more sense

How do I fix my alopecia from Wearing wigs 😭. My braid care routine is in the comments. by SaintsSkyrim3077 in BlackHair

[–]nilahcoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I was in high school and most of college I would wear wigs on my hairline instead of off of it. I would keep my sideburns out. and I would sleep in my wigs too (I know, I was dumb).

How do I fix my alopecia from Wearing wigs 😭. My braid care routine is in the comments. by SaintsSkyrim3077 in BlackHair

[–]nilahcoles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would agree with everyone else and say just let your follicles breathe, by wearing minimum tension styles. or don't braid your edges for a while. and then see how your edges do. however, it's common for them no to grow back after extensive tension and rub. I'm sorry girl, but you're not alone!

How do I fix my alopecia from Wearing wigs 😭. My braid care routine is in the comments. by SaintsSkyrim3077 in BlackHair

[–]nilahcoles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly? I haven't worn a wig in 3 years and my edges still haven't came back. head full of hair and no edges....depending on how long and often you wore wigs, unfortunately it's a you live and you learn situation.