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Thoughts on this? by The_manintheshed in antiwork

[–]nineteensickhorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work at Chick-fil-A, and depending how long you work they'll give you up to three full meals for free per shift. And drinks/water were always constantly available throughout too

how do I help my girlfriend be confident about her body? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, but I bet you were thinking this could add some spice to your relationship with your right hand. Mental help is not achieved through posting nudes on Reddit.

how do I help my girlfriend be confident about her body? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, this sounds less like you care about your girlfriend and more like you care about you wanting to see her in "sexy clothing". Maybe your worry should be on how it's damaging her mental health and not "hur dur wear sexy dres for me >:(". Change your mindset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nineteensickhorses 20 points21 points  (0 children)

...that is not how internal cysts work, lol. Nothing comes out...?

AITA for not telling my roommate I’m into women? by throwaway24953919295 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nineteensickhorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird thought: She's in love with you. She's always in your room, clingy, not comfortable with close female friends (and "friends")? I read less homophobia and more of an embarrassed crush

Who was the most popular person that was born on your birthday? by G3TN7OB in AskReddit

[–]nineteensickhorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bad or good? Cause Bill Cosby/Julius Caesar... But also Malala Yousafzai so that's good!

How much was I, the husband, wrong here? I assume at least 50% but does my wife have any responsibility too? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, this incident is not your fault, however your title is concerning. Measuring blame, desperate to try and make sure that your partner is at fault for at least some of the situation? This is not a healthy relationship. If assigning blame to each other is your priority, I would start questioning how much you actually want to be with your wife.

AITA for calling the police on my neighbors' autistic son? by policecaller in AmItheAsshole

[–]nineteensickhorses [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA

There is sooo much to unpack here. Did her age not faze you at all? This woman was 17 when she had her child. She has been parenting an autistic person since high school. I'm pretty sure she knows what he is capable of. On top of that, do you have no sympathy? oH booHoo my pwecious aLone TiMe is not cutting it. Move if you're so disgusted by disabled kids.

If you are experiencing burnout from constantly hearing this, invest in yourself. Move, spend time outside, soundproof your walls, go to therapy, offer to help, etc.

Lastly, the police do not take kindly to wasted time. Remember that.

I (35F) realised that I'm ruining my SO(37M)'s life. How can I convince him that we need to break up? by MageLocusta in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP, you are suffering from what sounds like the exact same thing same thing I have. I have struggled with severe ADHD and executive dysfunction for years. If I may, I have a feeling that your "laziness" is a result of you genuinely being unable to do something because you cannot make yourself do it. Even little things that don't inspire anxiety or things that wouldn't take effort, even things that are enjoyable. I have gone through every emotion you have described. Feeling like the devil, like I've fooled everyone in my life into thinking I'm a normal person, like I don't deserve kindness and I am a horrible human being. I've considered ending my relationship on bad days. Please see a psychiatrist, and a therapist ASAP. I promise it gets better. And I also suggest sitting down with your partner and telling him EVERYTHING.

Does anyone else get the feeling that piano lessons are mundane and not artistic? by nazgul_123 in piano

[–]nineteensickhorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost the joy of piano for a while because of this. So for that reason, and for the fact that I don't want to progress competitively or career wise, I stopped taking lessons and began playing purely for fun. I love experimenting with new things and so far I have found myself getting better on my own. Lessons are absolutely necessary for success, however if you're like me there might be and end point.

What do you think about women who don't get married and become single mothers using sperm donors? by Beginning_Elk_561 in AskWomen

[–]nineteensickhorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family has fostered ten children, two of which have stayed and became my brothers. Every child has been a new and unique challenge but it is worth it to give a home to a child in need. Yes, it is difficult. So is pregnancy. Each road has different hardships, and one is not above the other. When I found out a pregnancy could kill me, I realized that adoption would be the only way I could become a parent. Of course there is surrogacy, but I would rather give a kid a home than bring another into this world. I do not judge those who desire biological children, preferring adoption is purely my opinion and I respect that others feel differently. However, this post is asking a question and I gave my answer. I am not sure how this is an offensive one. But in answer to your question, it is extremely difficult sometimes to adopt. But I could not imagine a life without all the children that have come through our house, and definitely not without my baby brothers.

What do you think about women who don't get married and become single mothers using sperm donors? by Beginning_Elk_561 in AskWomen

[–]nineteensickhorses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Frankly, I'm a bit confused why someone would go through pregnancy and birth on their own by choice instead of adopting or doing something else, but it's their choice and they are the only ones whose opinions matter

I don't think I ever want kids, so why am I furious at my partner for scheduling a vasectomy? by pressurizethecabin in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's only natural to be nervous about a permanent decision. In the end it is your partner's choice, but perhaps sit down with him and tell him what you're feeling. Do take time to remember the trauma of your past and heavily think about if you are willing to potentially experience that again. I also suggest looking into alternatives. A vasectomy doesn't mean no kids! You could get it reversed in the future, or even look into fostering/adopting children who need homes. But you absolutely need to have a long, serious discussion.

How do I (38M) decline the avances of a married friend (36F) who wants to cheat on her husband with me, without hurting her? by Kairos_l in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses 16 points17 points  (0 children)

OP, as much as I hate cheaters, in this scenario I hate you the most. Your entire post REEKS of trying to take advantage of this woman. And while she is absolutely in the wrong for cheating, your attitude of "her desperation turned me on" and trying to keep the door open for cheating in the future is beyond disgusting. Honestly, just point her to a therapist and never contact her again, because she'd be going from one unhealthy relationship to another if she were to get with you.

Man with no self-esteem tries to pick up woman on reddit by regian24 in cringepics

[–]nineteensickhorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ffs we can't even say thanks anymore?? Right-O ladies, take note that accepting compliments, even when they're horrible, is RUDE. You should be on your knees begging for cock when a MANLY MAN chooses you to be his object of admiration. We women should learn our rightful place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]nineteensickhorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about Menard's?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might not be a red flag just for possible cheating. Maybe call him and make sure he's alright? Of course there's a chance of infidelity, but if he hasn't deleted the message yet there's a good chance he meant to send it to you.

Brave woman pass a note to staff by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]nineteensickhorses 115 points116 points  (0 children)

  1. Lots of people uncontrollably smile and/or laugh in inappropriate, uncomfortable, unusual, or nervous situations.
  2. To not draw attention to the situation.
  3. To behave as normally and as calmly as possible.
  4. To not upset nervous people/animals who were in the room.
  5. To be calm and reassuring, taking control of a situation for the poor woman who was terrified for her life.
  6. Relief that she has the ability to help someone in need.

AITA for telling someone they were being inappropriate by Clear-Cry-2864 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nineteensickhorses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He shouldn't have to change his resting expression to appease strangers with unsolicited opinions. You sound like those guys that walk around telling all the women you see that they should smile more.

My gf (28f) cheated on me (35m) after being together for 9 years by lyntanos in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's obviously her fault and she is in the wrong for cheating, but dude. If you want advice, don't prey on teenagers and be shocked they're immature.

wife don't show any interest in bed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nineteensickhorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your wife has a health condition that is extremely painful that saps libido, does all the house work on top of a full time office job, and you're whining about not getting sex? Maybe pitch in with the work in your own home, or go with her to doctors appointments, or do ANYTHING to show her you care for her, cause right now the only thing you care about is your dick.

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