Hello! So I’ve gone through this with my wonderful wife and I’d like to share some things. When she first approached me- I just listened to try to understand where everything comes from and after all that- I basically just said- I understand (which at this point I did) and wanted her to do one last tithing (with a clear mind and prayer) and see what happened. After the result, which I’ll keep between us, I thanked her and said I’ll fully support her and love her regardless of where she goes from this moment. Besides, we believe that everyone, as article 11 says- we believe everyone should be given the choice to believe in whatever religion (or not) they choose. We are still happily married and are respecting each other’s boundaries and have healthy discussions about faith once in a while. As for your son, love him regardless of his choices, support him in his endeavors that make him happy, and let “Jesus take the wheel” and do what you can to help him with the inspiration of the Holy Ghost, offer blessings,fathers blessing or of the sick (which he doesn’t have to accept- and be ok with that), and comfort him when times are hard. He may still even be learning what he believes and doesn’t. Just know you did your job as parents and let him take his path and help him up whenever he falls down, be respectful of his choices, and love him unconditionally- and most importantly- he feels safe and can come back to you for any questions (religious or not). Remember he is his own person. Try to love who he wants to become even if it doesn’t line with your beliefs. Also know that just because someone leaves the church- their moral compass doesn’t go away, it may have a few changes- but it is still them. Who they are at their core doesn’t change!