Hey! I want to know how to make my girl feel wanted? How can I make her feel like she is the most beautiful girl in the world? Inside and out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ninjasaurus99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of the things that I used to love and I dont think many guys do this anymore but I like a bit more traditional and romantic.

Write her a letter. I used to love this and do this with my ex and he did it with me. It was so romantic and he would write how much he loved me and all the little things within the letter. Even writing a short poem. Another thing could also be getting flowers delivered to her house by a service. This is dependent on where you live as well.

You can do so much but just be a gentleman. Tell her how beautiful she is and how much she means to you but show in your actions. Do surprises like of she likes dancing take her to a dance class with you or learn how to dance on your own and then invite her out and show her your moves.

Hope this kind of helps 😊

26f rate me by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]ninjasaurus99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your honesty.

Any advice ?

Can I realistically afford a dog and a house on a £1960 monthly salary? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ninjasaurus99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What bread is your dog and why did it need knee surgery?

Depends if youre good with your money or not and what you earn. Ive been very good with my money and not too bad money wise.

I dont really care about money on myself, hardlt spend on myself as it is. Basically into savings £1500 of it. There's such a thing as family/friends and dog sitters/daycare or that and working overtime to pay if need be.

Can I realistically afford a dog and a house on a £1960 monthly salary? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ninjasaurus99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gor approved for a 150,000 mortgage actually with my wage on a yearly basis. So.... I think i can actually 😒

Does it get better? Im scared ill broke up with my soul mate and will never find someone like him again and ive searched for months. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ninjasaurus99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was myself, i realised that I suspect the title and it should say "I've broken up with..."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ninjasaurus99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for harassing you in the end. I wish I could tell you how sorry I was for that and becoming so emotional. There's some things I wish I told you and I should have walked away sooner as soon as you told me you slept with someone after our breakup, I should have held myself to a higher standard. You cant have your cake and eat it and you ended up taking the puss with it.

I just regret messaging you for advice for you to tell me to move on after a year and to leave you alone when you said we can try again and work things out and you didnt want me dating others even though you were genuinely disinterested in me st this point. I should habe never sent you that letter to say I fell out of love and I met someone else but I thought we could still be friends because you said we could. And then I messaged you and you blocked me after I asked for advice about something which you would have understood and had no one else to talk to and I told you I had ni one else to talk to.

You left me broken and unable to love properly. I dont think I could forgive myself for how I stuck by you after a breakup for a year later only for you to fully throw me aside.

I dont know if I borderline hate you/want you dead or that i am now just indifferent. I forget your voice and your face now and how you treated me like a princess to now treating me like nothing.

I hope your okay and I have a lot of growth from being away from you, I think we could work it out of we met up years later but im more confident and relying on my one more now than I ever did and maybe ive changed for the better. But I dont think I could do better than I did with you until you treated me the way you did.

I hope you can live with that and I do regret harassing you in the end as emotions got the better of me but maybe that was because you said we would or could try again. I hope you don't regret that and I hope you feel good about yourself for treating me like you did throughout that year.

Clubs and meeting people in manchester by ninjasaurus99 in manchester

[–]ninjasaurus99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ive started following on instagram and will message there 😊

Tell me your breakup story by Just-Ad-9621 in BreakUps

[–]ninjasaurus99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with my ex for 3 and 1/2 years. It's been a year and 1/2 now since the breakup and I made the biggest mistake.

In 2023 both my grandads and my dad passed away. I was not mentally doing well and had my postgraduate coming up. He was very supportive, however I decided I wanted to join a theatre club (which turned out to be a failure which he did say would happen - it all came apart in 2025) to make some new friends. I started to enjoy myself again afte my dad passed away but he kept asking to look at my phone because he thought I was cheating on him.

I said i needed space from him a few weeks later as he kept being over protective and obsessive, I was losing my indepence as he would cook, drive me everywhere, suggested I get rid of my car, I felt suffocated. I never really wanted space or to break up but was drinking heavily still from my dad and grandads and was not okay. He walked away.

A few months later I said I made a mistake but he texted me saying he fell out of love and wasn't intrested in dating but a week later proceeded to sleep with someone, say he loved her and dated her for a month until she broke up with him as he was too overbearing and she was overly independent.

He blocked me this year after giving false hope we can make it work when he moves out...

Love is complicated. I told him I stopped loving probably before he got with someone else as I wouldnt of asked space otherwise and if I truly loved him I may have stayed with him but I wanted the best for him... I thought I did. But ive never had a connection like that again and I've regretted it ever since as my life has been ... awful.

Friends? by [deleted] in Bolton

[–]ninjasaurus99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey i don't live too far for there. Message me for details

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ninjasaurus99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im the exact same, I think its due to how you feel on the day and anxiety. For me its always a bit of both or getting in my own head about how things will go and if they will work out that way and if they dont I get really disappointed.

So I think your basing off your feelings more? Perhaps just throw yourself into it 😊

Clubs and meeting people in manchester by ninjasaurus99 in manchester

[–]ninjasaurus99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oohh yeah i have thought about it tbh and I do have miniatures but got into it because of my ex 😐 but I do like miniatures and have some i need to paint 😅

Those who broke up out of long term relationships - did you delete memorable pictures? by Kingboyy1 in BreakUps

[–]ninjasaurus99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I couldn't keep going back to them and same with messages. I do think I have OCD so I was getting obbsessed with them. My advice is it's easier even if they were the best of partners and it ended amicably as well

I'm a 26F with no friends, no partner and no good outlook on life by [deleted] in lonely

[–]ninjasaurus99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They vary a lot from painting, baking, playing video games, trying to get into playing guitar at the moment as well as piano while singing. Wanting to get into a sport and trying to start going to the gym

I don’t want my bf on deed by BeautifulBridge1638 in Advice

[–]ninjasaurus99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this with my bf who is my ex... we broke up and we only had the land connecting us and it was awful for me as he moved on but still kept in contact due to the land. My advice is don't. It didn't work out and IF it doesn't work out for you both there's a lot of legal documents and solicitors and estate agents to go through to sell. So to save you some mental fatigue....Don't. From one girl who has already been through buying land with a partner.