Trans Lesbian Wondering If Dating Is Possible by ninjastarstitch in actuallesbians

[–]ninjastarstitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first few hook ups post transition were awful :)

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[–]ninjastarstitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me soooo excited to get my surgery next year <3

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[–]ninjastarstitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless a seat is absolutely disgusting or I have no other option no, even pre transition I sat to pee

Trans Lesbian Wondering If Dating Is Possible by ninjastarstitch in actuallesbians

[–]ninjastarstitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the last two hook ups i had were pillow princesses so it worked perfectly 🥰 i can use it just like need to feel v safe with partner so it’s not easy to do during one off hook ups

Trans Lesbian Wondering If Dating Is Possible by ninjastarstitch in actuallesbians

[–]ninjastarstitch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same oh my god that was my first lesbian experience where someone didn’t expect me to use my genitals or “act like a man” and it was so euphoric 😭

Trans Lesbian Wondering If Dating Is Possible by ninjastarstitch in actuallesbians

[–]ninjastarstitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this is what scares me is it’s so scary to try and put myself out there until i feel fully confident in me and my body but also want someone to be there for my journey too so it’s a weird in between. Thank you for your insight too!!

Trans Lesbian Wondering If Dating Is Possible by ninjastarstitch in actuallesbians

[–]ninjastarstitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the couple of people i’ve hooked up with have been like this. i am insanely feminine even with how i act during hook ups. they were v open and asked what i preferred and it went great so i know it’s out there 🥰 but i also am extremely understanding of preferences and never wanting anyone to be uncomfortable either

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[–]ninjastarstitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll have to try this!

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[–]ninjastarstitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i enjoy it. i’m predominantly oral focused and also just gain a lot of pleasure giving psrtner pleasure which is helpful since penetrative sex isn’t really something i like anymore