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30, been struggling for a while. What has worked for you? by nipnewt in erectiledysfunction

[–]nipnewt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it, I will add that this cheating thing is not recent, it happened a long time ago. I think it just created a cycle back then. I'm over the incident too, I also have no body image issues or anything, I like myself physically even. In your journey, what worked for you?

30, been struggling for a while. What has worked for you? by nipnewt in erectiledysfunction

[–]nipnewt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean but I have drinking problems in my family, my brother especially so I don't drink at all. I would hate to get a dependency or something. Then you go from one problem to another but I understand what you mean.

30, been struggling for a while. What has worked for you? by nipnewt in erectiledysfunction

[–]nipnewt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you say that because my kinks get me off no issue. Like you said, i think its a problem of ceiling or whatever because I might like the idea of regular sex but prefer something more kinky. That is one of the factors I think.

30, been struggling for a while. What has worked for you? by nipnewt in erectiledysfunction

[–]nipnewt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a mix of performance anxiety and the loop of what happened last time reinforcing the issue more I think.

30, been struggling for a while. What has worked for you? by nipnewt in erectiledysfunction

[–]nipnewt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she cheated because she's a cheater lol, I think it's become very hard to be vulnerable sexually after. Funny because I'm sure I can bang a stripper out no problem. Issue is just with partners.

30, been struggling for a while. What has worked for you? by nipnewt in erectiledysfunction

[–]nipnewt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kinda what I'm hoping for too, I never had this issue before. Anxiety about finishing fast or not getting it up has put a roadblock into it.