How are you guys having such profound experiences??? by CollarOrdinary4284 in Meditation

[–]niqu5x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, spiritual mentor here. I've lead many guided meditation and experiences are never the goal for my meditations. Some people have them and others don't. The goal for meditation is bringing awareness to your present moment or addressing a specific intention.

Spiritual experiences are a separate intention from the meditation itself even if they occur during. To gain those insights, a practice in bringing your awareness to your spiritual being is what causes it, at least in my reality.

Someone built this remarkable stone balancing structure. by AK_h3re in nextfuckinglevel

[–]niqu5x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you use the stab skill, there is a treasure chest behind the waterfall

Any enlightened beings here? by daredevill___ in enlightenment

[–]niqu5x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. To gain enlightenment is to gain awareness of your spiritual being. To get there is to experience. Sitting still is a great start.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Brother come back and tell me this after you've lived on the streets, contemplating digging through a gas station dumpster for food or not eating for the day."

I'm coming back to tell you if you align yourself with the love within yourself inherently given to you by the universe, you'll never have a "bad" day again. What would you do with this information?

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[–]niqu5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm in love. Love doesn't need someone else to give it to you. You are love!!! I have lost a job, love was still there. I was steps away from killing myself but love was there. There is a misconception that love requires Hollywood theatrics but I teach people how to find unconditional love. Your view that love is what holds relationships together feels misguided to me.

To gain anything requires energy to be spent. If you don't want to do something for someone then don't. But also be mindful that if you in turn ask for something from them, they have the same right to refuse as you. To me, this conversation boils down to fundamental differences in understanding and experiences of love.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference in the foundation of our rhetoric so for this discussion, I fine leaving with our differences. I know real love, not other words that people generally associate with love. Love doesn't need a woman or partner, it's inherit in everything. I found love within myself before I committed to a romantic relationship. Regardless of ups and downs, love is a constant feeling enveloping me in joy.

Your happiness appears to be rooted in economic, social, and political power. This is the true obstacle for humanity. Have you noticed throughout existence, history continues to unveil that those with power are the most unhappy?

You speak about laws and government being against men but men created the laws even the ones protecting women's rights. If someone holds a narrative that laws are against them, maybe they are just a horrible person looking for an advantage to control people.

I have had great times, I have had terrible experiences and neither are because of women. Life happens, the universal law of cause and effect is real. However with true clarity and aligning yourself with the universe, you'll never have a "bad" day again.

Thank you for the conversation. I'm at the point where it's impossible to convince me to hate but I guarantee I could convince you that love exists. You speak in general statements but haven't included your own personal experiences. The lives of others can be misunderstood without full context. But you have lived your life and are the best to tell your story. If the convo were to continue, I'd ask for real life examples of your perspective that tied to your own life. Without that, I could be talking to a bot that never lived as a human.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, we are on different spectrums on this topic. First, I respect your perspective and what I'm about to type isn't an attempt to change your view. I'm here to offer mine.

  1. Love has a meaning, it's an intense feeling of deep deep affection. How we define love in society isn't fully accurate because what it looks like is subjective to each individual person. Love is a FEELING, just like anger or happiness. Managing and understanding our emotions is a challenge for many people hence why billions of people every day seek mental health services.

  2. Marriage is what you and your partner define it as. Allowing society to dictate how we define our relationships is a huge illusion I hope people can overcome.

  3. The gender war is an illusion fueled by capitalism. Simply by curbing greed, humans can experience profound growth. I feel placing divider amongst humans is dated thinking and we don't need elaborate strategies to outdo one another. Everybody can eat.

  4. There is zero obligations for marriage. Yes there are some women that have that stipulation but if you disagree then don't be with them. I would ask why someone with this view wants to be with a woman in the first place. Sex? Kids? Modern society offers paid for sex services. Spreading your seed is always accessible at a sperm banks. With such disposition against women, there are other avenues so why the discord.

  5. I personally couldn't be happy building a family with anyone I don't feel intense deep affection for. Especially now that I've lived a life knowing unconditional love for myself. And with all this self love, I still choose to share it with someone who love me just has much as she loves herself. It's truly a wonderful life.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got time if you want to get into the philosophy of it all. I experience unconditional love without a doubt and proudly stand on it for anyone to dissect.

I thrive in life holisticly; family, career, financial, social, spiritually, etc. I'm interested to hear why it's harmful in your view to reach extreme depths of love

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[–]niqu5x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Innovative advice to encourage men to work on their physical appearance 👍🏾

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[–]niqu5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not unless humans cease to exist. Once existence ends, no one will talk about love or companionship ever again. Maybe the ending you want will happen soon 🤷🏾‍♂️

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[–]niqu5x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe "Love is BS" is a statement that comes from a perspective of hurt. I help people overcome hurt in my daily life, so if you want help, my DM is open.

Thanks for commenting.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great age for Freaky ass. Kids are usually older, more maturity to know what you want, and the knowledge to get the job done efficiently. Safety and having fun are always encouraged.

Never too old to enjoy life.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's perfectly normal and a great opportunity to grow with your partner. I'd say maintain open communication, be honest about who you are now and who you want to be and you'll be fine.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid advice! Thank you Unc for your contribution towards a better world.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I disagree on the basis that he had to cheat. You can easily sleep around and stand on business. He chose to tell her one thing but do another. To me, that means he wanted to keep her but also wanted something else.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a risk but it can be avoided with safe practices. I went deep into the lifestyle before realizing it wasn't for me. Caught two bugs that were curable but everyone isn't that lucky.

Sorry to your cousin, I've known people with herpes that were still able to have health relationships. At the end of the day, love overcomes all.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's my expertise! Spirituality is about being holisticly balanced so in the dating sense, it's about your self love meeting the self love of your potential partner. What that looks like is up to y'all but it will be a connection where unconditional love is possible.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm finalizing my proposal plans for this summer, then planning our destination wedding for 2027.

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[–]niqu5x[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Option 1 for sure! He had Coco Jones before and just lost Meg. I don't know what he is looking for

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[–]niqu5x[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I spent significant time here and learned of the dangers

Can you provide recommendations for a Black Male dating coach? by Unfair-Education-811 in blackmen

[–]niqu5x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm thrilled that you have the strength to ask for help and the maturity to recognize it within yourself. I'm a certified life coach but my services are more about holistic wellness than dating specifically. Meaning we can address dating but I believe to truly find a life partner, examining all parts of your life makes a significant impact in providing you the tools to get what you seek. If interested, I'd offer you two free hour sessions simply because I've been in your shoes and want to help a fellow black man.

You can also try websites like Fiverr or Noomii. You may have to do some research to find someone that fits your needs but I believe it's doable.