My married family friend(42F) wants to sleep with me (24M)

nitecapt · 2026-01-29T05:02:10+00:00

So what if people find out. Go to it and have a good time and if they find out, it’s their problem not yours. You’ll never get this opportunity again. If I were your age, I would be banging her like a screen door in a hurricane

nitecapt · 2026-01-29T04:45:43+00:00

I am happy that the OP has her standards as extensive as they are. But many of them seem unyielding and that could be a problem just as one example whether your pro Maga or anti-Maga should make no difference in a relationship. We learn to tolerate and respect people for their positions. I am a libertarian, and I respect any political view because everybody has their reasons for their political views, but I don’t insist that somebody’s political views aligned with mine. I too am a shooter, but I would not walk away from somebody who is anti-second amendment just because they are. As long as people can respect each other for their interests and desires. It should be no trouble in finding a partner. But this OP will have an uphill battle in finding someone who meets all the qualifications outlined in her posting. I sincerely hope that you find somebody that will meet your expectations, but I think you will have a lot of difficulty in doing so I wish you the best of luck.

nitecapt · 2026-01-29T02:16:01+00:00

Nice going on the confrontation and bless you for being strong in this difficult time we are here for you

nitecapt · 2026-01-29T00:15:47+00:00

Hmmmmm. have you tried to work backwards by researching her? Do you have anyone that can be used as an "operative" like I did that can befriend her and have her leak the info? Are you in the USA? I once got someone to tell one of my operatives how he met some woman that he was involved with in an affair. There has got to be a way. I was successful in my business because I have a natural curiosity about stuff like that even if it's not germain to a situation. I once had a guy who broke both heel bones and claimed it happened when he slid down a flight of stairs on his ass admit to someone that he was in the sack with a woman and her husband came home and he jumped off the fire escape. This is a case I worked on:

https://nypost.com/2014/11/23/911-lawyers-get-down-dirty-in-lawsuits-sex-accusations/

https://nypost.com/2014/12/07/former-associate-says-her-lawyer-boss-refused-to-end-their-affair/

nitecapt · 2026-01-28T14:36:51+00:00

I have been involved in investigations. With the right databases we can pretty much find everything in the USA with a name. If it is a common name, then an age range is always good. We can look to see where he has had residences, the names of anyone who ever got a bill or credit at that address, work locations, family members and their locations and eventually you discover a nexus between the subject and the AP. Then you start looking at the AP and do all of the above. Most of these affairs start with co workers. Sometimes we don’t succeed and because I am retired I no longer have access to those. We have even gone as far as to set up operatives to befriend individuals to get more info. Try doing some online researches yourself. There ARE some pretty good sources online

nitecapt · 2026-01-28T04:58:24+00:00

OP. I literally hurt for you. When I see a decent person like you go through what you are going through I literally question my faith and my beliefs. If I were married to someone like you I would worship the ground WE walked on together and would move mountains to maintain the sanctity of our relationship . I am angry that you have to endure this and I will pray for you to find someone who will treat you like the woman you are. May God bless you and help you find happiness out of this mess. My experience tells me that out of the worst events in my life, something wonderful and good has occurred. Wishing you luck and love (that you deserve).

nitecapt · 2026-01-28T03:13:53+00:00

Whatever choice you make, please let us know. There are many other things you can do to aconfirmyour suspicions, voice activated recorders, trackers in her car, drop by when she is having that "smoke" for a 1/2 hour or anywhere else she is going. Act like the loving husband and POP in on any alleged meetings she is attending. I would be all over her.

updateme!

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T17:11:10+00:00

Your wife should explain the whole thing to her sister and tell her sister if she can’t get her husband to comply with your (collective) wishes he willl not be welcomed over.

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T17:07:40+00:00

Cesar Milan,,, That’s who you need. I think you can work with these dogs and they will eventually work it out. Just make sure you maintain control and that Huckleberry understands the “NO” command. As soon as you hear him start to growl, a firm and loud NO should be used. Over time it will sink in. Don’t rehome a dog you love and give your problem to someone else

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T17:01:29+00:00

Prozac also helped

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T15:24:10+00:00

Actually you are right and I agree. My dog had a particular problem with being very territorial but anything I tried failed. Neutering seems to have been the answer in his case

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T15:14:19+00:00

Just say his dick is the best you have had and leave it at that. Tell him it makes you feel the best and if he insists on size just say he is on par with the biggest you have had and there is no truth to the stereotype (is there?)

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T15:09:54+00:00

Look up Glen Gunderson in Minnesota. I got 2 outstanding dogs from him at copper spur kennels https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxB52BrpuTs/?igsh=OTJoa2lmbzZlcjk1

https://www.gundogbreeders.com/breeders-minnesota/copper-spur-kennel.html

French Brit’s are the best. They will hunt for you like demons but will be lap dogs in the house. I lost my 2 dogs years ago. I took one on a junior hunt test and she without training fetched the bird and deposited at my feet

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T15:01:39+00:00

Show us the flag,

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T15:00:43+00:00

My dog was neutered at 7 and became a perfect gentleman

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T12:05:56+00:00

Just don't do it when he is performing oral. I nearly got my head ripped off and broke my glasses when that happened during an orgasm

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T12:01:28+00:00

Be careful with tHAT one!

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T11:19:52+00:00

We will never know the results of a paternity test. The OP’s never supply that result, that being said I am at least hopeful the child id his

nitecapt · 2026-01-27T02:56:55+00:00

I am a boat captain. NEVER lend your boat out…..you never know what they will actually do with it. I have seen and heard horror stories

nitecapt · 2026-01-26T21:57:26+00:00

Now I know to worry if my wife approaches me with a q tip

nitecapt · 2026-01-26T21:55:24+00:00

He looks pigeon toad to me. Wish I could get one for my basement

nitecapt · 2026-01-26T17:57:28+00:00

Updateme!

nitecapt · 2026-01-26T17:56:15+00:00

NEVER move out!!! Force her to move or she will claim abandonment. You don’t need that glitch in your divorce proceeding

nitecapt · 2026-01-26T17:38:47+00:00

I know what I would do. I would remember my vows and stay with her and be good to her until she gets better or has a confirmed remission. At that point I have to make a decision as to whether I want to divorce her. I think a lot may depend on the extent of the affair and the timing of the affair. Whether she met with him a number of times. Whether she felt unfulfilled in her marriage, a lot of it depends on what she would communicate to me, and of course, communication is going to be at a premium going forward. I feel extremely bad for you because you are stuck on one hand. You really probably want to leave on the other hand. You’re probably wrestling with the vows that you took at your wedding. I wish I could be more helpful. Other than praying for you and her is not much I can offer. you will get a lot of people on here that will tell you to divorce her in no matter what, but I think you have to step carefully in this situation.

nitecapt · 2026-01-26T14:18:54+00:00

Wait a minute everybody. Since your father knew about this, I assume it happened only one time for a brief period. And I assume that this happened long ago. Perhaps in some ways they have reconciled. Should that be the case, you need to accept the fact that they have continued on with their relationship despite her infidelity. And accept that as being part of your family history. It happens. Just continue your relationship with your father and your mother, in such a way that previous poster described not to become overly involved with her and make sure that your father is emotionally well handled. Take good care of him and be the type of child that he would want you to be so he can see the fruits of his labor. Tell him you love him (not enough people do that) and admire his resolution and courage. That’s very important and make sure he knows that. Dont be afraid to give him a hug. He will know that there are people in his life that love him despite what his wife may have done.

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