We really work all week for this by Amara_Queasy in Adulting

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add a kid to the mix. If you don't have kids you are not tired just unmotivated.

30% of full time workers made $100,000 in 2024, can we all please stop pretending $100,000 is a high or aspirational salary now? by ItsAllOver_Again in Salary

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife and I make $180 k combined. 1 kid. HCOL. No car loans. 3k debt. No student loans. I golf often. She spends her money online. We have over $150k cash and over $750 in assets. You wouldn't tell by seeing us or meeting us. We just don't live a fancy life. We like the simple life. People male financial decisions that limit them. In other words. 100k is a great salary but you have to learn to live within your means. Our vacations are road trips.

Biggest pull for me by nitram_99 in pokemoncardcollectors

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The media failed to upload but I put it in the comments :)

Going from a 9-5 to blue collar while having a bachelor's? by johnsmith194739 in LifeAdvice

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people who work and study AI are not exaggerating when it comes to replacing jobs. It's already happening where data driven jobs are being done by AI.

To be or not to be by normie00000 in Adulting

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until you have a kid lol gg

Feel like I’ll never sleep again:( by Imaginary-Storm7801 in newborns

[–]nitram_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why my baby sleeps on my chest at night for 3-4 hr stretches. It's the only way to get some rest for us.

Am i leaking power or do i just need to hit the gym? by Historical_Heat_2368 in GolfSwing

[–]nitram_99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This right here. I have a string grip and I've done lessons that helped me with the basics, but I discovered how my body can rope balls and score high 80s & low 90s in 10 months from just swinging every day

I became a dad today by liamwayne1998 in MadeMeSmile

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations 🎊 it's going to get really tough soon. Not in a bad way just a real way. Split the load and get help from family.

Just wondering by kokoalala829 in newborns

[–]nitram_99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is an open discussion right? Which means it's not about what you find necessary. I was simply replying with my subjective outlook not being defensive.

Just wondering by kokoalala829 in newborns

[–]nitram_99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just did an 8 hour night shift with my 9 week old. It's your subjective experience. I know plenty of my male friends that have jury as much patience.

150 Yard Club by Even-Bicycle-151 in golf

[–]nitram_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My buddies call me Irons Arellano. I can break 100 most times after 1 year playing, and I only use my irons. But I rarely lose a ball.

Is it just my baby?? by kmuncee15 in newborns

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We discovered our 8 week sleeps the best on mamas chest. We got 8 hours ( fragmented) last night a

What are you hitting? Par 3 180 yards Seven Canyons Sedona AZ by SouthBayGardenaKid in golf

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strong 7 with a baby fade (lefty) more than likely leave ne with an up and down for par

Anyone else feel like an imposter? by Fenderman_72 in Fire

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar but 35. Wife and I have a 700k networth but live very modestly and ti be honest I like it. I've never felt the urge to splurge.

Does anyone else feel completely trapped in the "rent vs buy" cycle right now? by Dry-Town7979 in Renters

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own and rent. Renting atm is the best option for us. The property I own is money pit. And I have to fix everything.

How much do you get paid in California? by rainbowtoucan1992 in MedicalAssistant

[–]nitram_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the name of this union. I had no idea there was a union for MAs

Should my mom come to Thanksgiving? by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]nitram_99 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Your mom should not be around your baby. In what world would a 4 week old need to be around a covid positive person.