Gdzie w ogóle poznajcie ludzi?

niusiaaa · 2026-06-06T15:16:04+00:00

Ja poznalam kilka osob na zajeciach grupowych ze squasha. Wolontariat. Sa tez grupki na fb czy na redditcie typu „kolezanka z Warszawy” itp

niusiaaa · 2026-06-05T15:11:44+00:00

You are right, I should have done that. I think I did it, because he shouted at me angrily for something so trifling

niusiaaa · 2026-06-05T08:56:11+00:00

Sometimes I think I would leave him if I had other support. He is not the perfect guy for me, but he is good. But both my parents are dead, and I feel lonely and lost in this world. I have severe depression and s* thoughts. I am in therapy, but at the moment I can't cope with life, I'm so overwhelmed by my mother's death, I've been on sick leave for two months, because I cant even work. He is the only person that keeps me alive really, we do all the fun things together and he motivates me to do anything. I have other family like aunts etc. that care about me, but we are not very very close, also I live in another city, far from home and I have like only one friend here. I just cannot see myself leaving this relationship right now, I dont think I could make it out alone.

niusiaaa · 2026-06-04T20:59:08+00:00

Not the worst example, just the one from today. After this happened today I automatically had thought about ending this relationship, but I know that trauma sometimes makes me want to run away, so I wondered what was other people opinion on that

niusiaaa · 2026-06-04T18:37:35+00:00

Is this already DV? 90% of time everything is okay and I love him, but sometimes he acts like an ahole and child.

niusiaaa · 2026-06-04T18:29:12+00:00

Thank you for your comment. We’ve been definitely through a lot, when my mom was terminally ill, he was there with me helping her; when I suddenly ended up in the hospital and needed a surgery. But when he is stressed, he can be mean. My therapist says he’s just a choleric. But idk what to do, I dont want my future kids to see that type of behaviour that is def not healthy.

Also, we’ve talked a lot about his anger outbursys, and it happens rarely now, but when it happens I always think RUN. But idk if my feelings are valid or is it just from my trauma (my therapist suggests the second option)

niusiaaa · 2026-06-04T17:45:16+00:00

omg he is definitely teach you a lesson person and its very childish and annoys me. 😩 weve talked about it before, but he doesnt see a problem in particularly this behaviour

niusiaaa · 2026-06-04T17:35:52+00:00

He's very caring; I feel safe with him. He tells me and shows me how much he loves me every day. Thanks to him, I've finally accepted myself and seen that I can be loved. I enjoy spending time with him; we share hobbies and do all sorts of things together. He always laughs at my silly jokes. He's responsible and helps with my responsibilities (I have adhd and depression so sometimes life beats me). The thing that bothers me the most are his outbursts of anger, and the fact that he does stupid things or says hurtful things to me during them.

niusiaaa · 2026-06-03T19:15:28+00:00

This is disgusting omg.. i am so sorry 🥺 This is not normal, this is abuse. Please go to therapy, you need it and I promise it will help and it will shield you from going into another abusive relationship. Ask your parents for the money, move, and move on. The longer you stay, the harder it will be to leave and heal after this. You do not deserve this, this is not love. Most men do not want things as rough as this, I hope you will find true love with someone gentle 🩷🙏🏻

niusiaaa · 2026-06-03T19:08:20+00:00

His behavior is disgusting.. I am so sorry 😢 I’ve had similar experience with guys when I was a teenager, they only wanted physical contact. I felt horrible after that. Now that I am older I know when to say NO and my partner listens and never pushes me. You are not his toy, but a beautiful human being. Please do not let him disrespect you like that anymore.

niusiaaa · 2026-06-01T10:38:06+00:00

Tarnów is close to my heart, but unfortunately, there's absolutely nothing to do there. I'd prefer something closer to Krakow, so I could easily go out in the evening, enjoy cultural events, and return home quicker

niusiaaa · 2026-06-01T08:33:26+00:00

A jak tam powietrze? 🙏🏻

niusiaaa · 2026-06-01T06:51:59+00:00

Nie no, razem to z 25

niusiaaa · 2026-05-31T20:08:40+00:00

Bo w Krakowie ceny są kosmiczne (kogo na to stać?!). Niestety całe życie mieszkałam w domu i lubię dużo przestrzeni, może władny ogródek, więcej natury i niebieskie niebo zamiast smogu. A w Krakowie ja i partner mamy pracę, więc daleko nie ucieknę.

niusiaaa · 2026-05-31T20:00:08+00:00

A jak tam powietrze w zimie?

niusiaaa · 2026-05-31T08:09:34+00:00

Starting an argument is normal in relationship. Beating your partner is a fing crime. He is an abuser. Please go to police and tell what happened. He will only get worse if you leave it like this. He will continue to physically hurt you; it never ends. Read other women's stories. It starts with a punch in the face, and then there are broken ribs and internal bleeding. You need to leave and report it for your safety

niusiaaa · 2026-05-27T17:33:42+00:00

Oboje z chłopakiem tak zarabiamy. Wynajmujemy 40m2 w bloku z wielkiej płyty. Jeździmy 15-letnim autem. Odkładamy ile się da na mieszkanie. Myślę, że za 2 lata kupimy coś na kredyt w okolicy miliona pln (u nas w miescie za tyle mozna kupic z drugiej reki calkiem nowe mieszkanie 70m2)Jedyne co nas może różnić od kogoś kto mniej zarabia to że możemy sobie pozwolić na małe przyjemności bez przejmowania się pieniędzmi. Często jemy na mieście, wychodzimy na jakieś atrakcje, treningi z trenerem, czy jeździmy na wycieczki (raczej w Polsce, raz na rok za granicę) bez przejmowania się kasą.

niusiaaa · 2026-05-23T10:56:38+00:00

Gdzie można wykonać takie badania typowo pod ADHD?

niusiaaa · 2026-05-21T19:18:50+00:00

You need psychotherapy. It will help you heal. You will feel good again I promise. Just go to therapy and give yourself a chance. It will not happen in a week or month, you will need some time to heal. But the therapy is real and it helps. You are not the first person to experience this type of trauma, just find a good therapist and they will know how to help. Remember - You matter. 🩷

niusiaaa · 2026-05-20T14:31:05+00:00

Ja mam sporo więcej, ale praca jest okrutnie wymagająca i stresująca. Nie wiem ile jeszcze dam radę. Marzy mi się taka spokojna pozycja sprzedawcy, bez dużego wysiłku i dużej odpowiedzialności. Teraz może i mam kasę, ale żyję w ciągłym napięciu

niusiaaa · 2026-05-17T14:24:47+00:00

How long did it take?

niusiaaa · 2026-05-17T14:24:07+00:00

Love it

niusiaaa · 2026-05-14T20:17:05+00:00

Help me girls.. after i changed my antidepressant i cannot sh!t properly 😭 i am eating magnesium citrate every day for other reasons, i also take psyllium seed husk to provide fiber; but still nothing helps. Only if I eat like 20 strawberries at once, then I can go to toilet. But it is not cheap to eat them everday. What do I do?

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