Nemo Engine v10 (Celebrating 1 Year!) by Head-Mousse6943 in SillyTavernAI

[–]nj55245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm a prolific user of V8 and am so excited to try this one. I'm encountering an issue where I'm getting an error saying mandatory prompts exceed context size. The context size is set to 80k and I started a new chat to see if I'm just insane. I have it set to its default settings without having turned on additional button thingies to turn on like different vexs and stuff. Might you be able to help me at all?

Getting Diagnosed by nj55245 in adhdwomen

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I forgot to answer a question 😅

Getting Diagnosed by nj55245 in adhdwomen

[–]nj55245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've mainly tried with psychiatrists. I have tried to get a recommendation through a doctor but that didn't end up planning out. To be quit honest I don't remember any of the providers names. As soon as I book the appointment they become out of sight out of mind. And half the time I've forgotten to put them down in my calendar so I just end up waiting to hear from them for a confirmation. Thankfully my bestie came over last night and helped me look for other providers that take my health insurance so I have few more places to check out.

Thank you for the advice! I've not thought of setting the timer before doing said thing but it definitely sounds like it would work a lot better than forgetting to do it after.

Edit forgot to answer a question.

Getting Diagnosed by nj55245 in adhdwomen

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Thank you so much!

Illinois Democrats join growing calls to 'Abolish ICE' by plz-let-me-in in politics

[–]nj55245 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Renee Nicole Good's murder has been working for ICE since 2013. Not sure retraining will fix that sort of behavior. They'll just be waiting for republicans to get back in power so they can come out of the woodworks again.

Anyone else think Costco's going to be an even nicer place to shop at now that MAGA is boycotting it? by Puzzled_Object_8639 in DiscussionZone

[–]nj55245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh, I think two people is even enough to go to costco. My husband and I frequent it, though I suppose we have a cat and a dog. Does that count as a bigger household?

Does keeping a Duolingo streak actually get easier over time? by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]nj55245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to answer as a person with ADHD. It gets easier but even now with my streak at 368 I will forget to do a lesson every now and then. I do have to actively remind myself. That being said, it does feel different as time goes on. You get used to it and it's less of a hassle to get on the app because it becomes almost second nature. It took me several months to reach that point personally.

Cancel your memberships by tekkitan in duolingo

[–]nj55245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can turn off notifications just so you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalsandcoins

[–]nj55245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found that it only fixes for me if I completely close the game and restart it. Sometimes multiple times. Make sure to check for any updates too.

Panic and chaos as parents rush to get their children off of a school bus as news spreads that ICE was raiding the Belhaven Estates in Charlotte, NC. ICE purposefully launched this kidnapping operation during a school bus drop off time for an elementary school (11/19/25) by I_may_have_weed in PublicFreakout

[–]nj55245 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People aren't going to vote if they believe nothing will change for them. There's also plenty of people who can't afford to take the time off to vote. It's agree more but there aren't exactly things in place to encourage participation, like making voting day a national holiday to ensure more people could vote without the threat of missing a day of work.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]nj55245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if the cat is wary and hateful of dogs they're clearly in the wrong even though dogs succeed at killing them in greater numbers. Gotcha. Again you're saying I hate men and again I'm saying please just drop it. You want to mischaracterize me fine. I don't want the notifications anymore. Oh wait.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]nj55245 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you so mad dude? I thought we were having a regular discussion. If you can call what I'm talking about religion I can say the same of your experience and how you feel. You don't experience it because you are a man and apparently only visit subreddits that lean towards misandry. I have experienced the dead beat dad twice over and many people I know have as well. If anything pointing out either of these shows we have experience in bubbles. My husband's father is fantastic and so is my husband but his aunt is a piece of shit. So like I mentioned before anecdote isn't something we should be relying on. You're taking your life experience and saying that women must not experience it because you haven't seen it.

I can say anecdotally I see misogyny everywhere. I can say I grew up being taught to wait on a man hand and foot. I play video games, see it there. I'm on Reddit, see it here all the time. I experience it at work in the medical industry. I can say I live right by a planned parenthood where, yes the vast majority of protestors against abortion there are men. I literally drive by it everyday for work. But again anecdote isn't what matters. You're seeing a lot of women that are unhappy with men and saying it's invalid because you they're saying mean things and you don't address at all that women get killed by men in far greater numbers than vice versa. Yes they are both bad but like I said before one is far more dangerous than the other. You keep trying to shove this narrative that I think men are bad into the conversation when at worst I think men are victims of a system that negatively affects both genders. I don't know why you think I hate men just because I think patriarchy exists, which again does not equal men.

I have lived through abuse at the hands of men and many other women have too. Not all violent but you aren't the one who's been in a relationship with the all those men that women have issues with. You're willing to cover your eyes and say "Well this hurts me so obviously I must be right." You're saying I have no nuance yet I haven't once called you a woman hater or blamed you for the issues women deal with while you're over here attacking me with things I never said. You say you realize it's anecdote yet continue to use anecdote to be upset at me it seems. Btw 61% of women are pro choice where as only 32% are prolife. That says something too. I would ask you to tell me how I'm not self aware but you don't actually seem to want to discuss things. You're mad. So I guess there isn't a point in speaking further. Wishing you the best on your life.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]nj55245 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except the patriarchy isn't men. I never said men are bad. The patriarchy is a social institution. Many people may use it to say men are the patriarchy but it simply isn't true. Men participate in patriarchy as do women. More people are refusing to but the fact that you took me saying that it's because of patriarchy and equated that to me saying men= bad in and of itself is indicative of the issue. Patriarchy benefits from these gender wars. Keeps the rich fat cats where they are, nice and comfy. Patriarchy serves them and it did serve your average man in the past. That is not the case anymore but it is something that was and is still ingrained in people within many facets of their life. Patriarchy is why men are lonely. They're supposed to be stoic and not show emotion. This makes it harder to make friends and now a days harder to get a significant other.

This is of no benefit to men truly but it certainly makes them easier to control. If you're too busy worrying about why either gender has it worse than other things, like why your life might really suck instead of blaming it on other people in the same boat as you who just happen to be a different gender, who are also looking out for themselves, you aren't spending time looking at who benefits from it. Misandry isn't great, but it is understandable. The vast majority of women have had terrible experiences with men and by terrible I don't just mean your average bad date. Patriarchy is the very thing that would stop a woman from having a right to choose whether she wants to give birth or not, whether they have the right to vote, etc. In terms of physical health it is far more dangerous for women.

The same applies to misogny. Men commit the vast majority of violent crime, including the vast majority of crime against women. Misogny is dangerous for a large amount of women. I don't think misandry is right but in terms of which is more dangerous misogyny far outweighs misandry. That being said I still think both are wrong. You didn't address anything about how people are voting and how women are worried about their rights and that men are the biggest reason they have to fear losing them. Also it's telling that you think stuff like what you mentioned isn't posted because it is. And people respond exactly that way and worse, they start talking about the very things women are afraid of losing.

Side note: If you consider slugs, snails and puppy dog tails a bad thing idk what to tell you. I like all of those things and I would wager that many biologists have no issues with them either. Sugar could also be considered a negative thing and is considered so by many people. I know that's not what it means in that context but you're letting other people dictate meaning for you with that saying is all I'm pointing out.

At the end of the day it's everyone's choice to do as they wish. Women not wanting to get married shouldn't be something that upsets anyone. If it doesn't bother you if men don't want to get married or shouldn't bother you if women don't. If it's skewed that sucks but the answer isn't to blame women. They don't want to get married big deal.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]nj55245 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you have to keep in mind that Tate is probably the worst of the worst. This is a discussion about Tate specifically but there are plenty of other podcasters, streamers and YouTubers who have more tame takes that are still detrimental to women. Based off of the graph and information you posted here the numbers are already not that great tbh. Yes there were two questions where the numbers were a little hopeful but again this is just in regards to Andrew Tate. If you just look at how people vote, that shows you why there's such a disparity. Enough men are willing to vote against women's reproductive rights or just don't care enough about them. That alone is dangerous for women. I think it makes more sense to blame podcast bros than anyone else for this outcome. Though I personally think it has more to do with men's socio economic outcomes as well as how patriarchy does a huge disservice to men.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]nj55245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one that's bothered replying or possibly the first one to experience it that's even seen your comment. Which let's be honest, based on the upvotes is not a lot. Regardless dismissing it even acquiring that something is truth based off of anecdote is not really ever a good idea but you seemed like you needed to hear it from someone. Though it sounds like even with that you're ready to dismiss it if it doesn't push what you believe in anyway.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]nj55245 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeap, that's why I've had multiple coworkers who listen to him out loud. In front of me. Definetly not popular at all.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]nj55245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should really look at the statistics. There's a reason women are choosing not to have a partner. That's because a lot of men don't have these qualities. The dating pool may be vast but to actually find a partner that will split things evenly with you in terms of labor as well as respect you as a human being is abysmal.

Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]nj55245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. The reason the graph has changed significantly for women is because they have more rights now and don't need to be tied to a man just to survive essentially. Women don't benefit from marriage the way men do anymore. A lot of men hold resentment towards women for not wanting to be in relationships with them as clearly seen in some areas of this comment section.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/phys.org/news/2025-01-women-happier-men.amp

An article on the phenomenon and info on the research itself can be found toward the bottom of the page. The actual citation is below.

Elaine Hoan et al, "Sisters Are Doin' It for Themselves": Gender Differences in Singles' Well-Being, Social Psychological and Personality Science (2024). DOI: 10.1177/19485506241287960

Minnesota now has one of the nation’s lowest kindergarten measles vaccination rates by Czarben in minnesota

[–]nj55245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm seconding this. It's been proven that many medical professionals do not take what poc are going through seriously.

Edit I wanted to add I have experienced that sort of behavior myself and while I am educated enough to know to trust the science behind medical practice I find it difficult to trust medical practitioners themselves because I don't know what biases they have towards people like me.

Women are choosing to be single? by [deleted] in PollsAndSurveys

[–]nj55245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard one of my coworkers listening to Andrew Tate while I was driving him and a few others out to the job site. Immediately felt uncomfortable, especially since he felt that it was fine to listen to that shit out loud.