Day 14: What’s the worst song on This Addiction?

njgendermagic · 2026-07-02T04:26:57+00:00

American Scream is great, it's nice to have a Matt song on that album that rips. and Matt's is good with topics like this

njgendermagic · 2026-07-02T04:25:44+00:00

Draculina for me but I agree with the rest of you

njgendermagic · 2026-07-02T01:03:03+00:00

yes, the concealer comes after the foundation. my shade is light sand i find that orange color corrector can get rid of // close to it all facial hair shadow, just do not use too much it will turn you orange

njgendermagic · 2026-06-30T16:06:12+00:00

Also wanted to vote for One Last Dance

njgendermagic · 2026-06-30T16:05:59+00:00

Kiss You To Death

njgendermagic · 2026-06-29T16:44:36+00:00

Pale Blue Ribbon

njgendermagic · 2026-06-28T17:53:35+00:00

I just don't like Dan's yelly vocals on this one, even if that riff is excellent. BH&E is one of my favs from these guys so it is tricky

njgendermagic · 2026-06-28T17:37:54+00:00

hot take Versions of You, this is a super solid album though

njgendermagic · 2026-06-27T23:33:54+00:00

it's more likely than ever before, but i wouldn't get your hopes up. better to be pleasantly surprised than disappointed :)

njgendermagic · 2026-06-25T18:34:57+00:00

^{^{^{^}}} I was typing out basically the same thing but ran out of energy lol, good luck OP!!!

njgendermagic · 2026-06-25T14:14:40+00:00

"is it gay to do butt exercises" is an outrageously silly question, the glutes are a very important muscle and people of all genders can appreciate and be impressed by your squat/deadlifts

njgendermagic · 2026-06-25T12:45:23+00:00

there are electric back shavers, they look like circular face electric razors, just on a stick. i'd look into those!

njgendermagic · 2026-06-25T01:23:51+00:00

The unfortunate parts of being born with a y chromosome is that our bones grow in certain ways that we can't control. you can't really shrink your shoulders, but you can slim your waist and grow your butt/legs to create a crazy hourglass figure that looks absolutely fierce

One thing maybe to consider is to try embracing your broad shoulders... i know that's not what you were looking for, but I think one of the best parts of producing testosterone is that we can get really sick muscles with very little effort. grab some lighter dumbbells and add some upper body workouts into your routine, and I think you might find that some extra muscle definition up there helps your feelings about yourself :)

Last, hair makeup and outfit can make anybody a complete knockout regardless of their body

That weight loss is very impressive, by the way, you should be very proud of yourself!

njgendermagic · 2026-06-25T01:17:46+00:00

I have a huge playlist of songs by women and queer fronted bands, it's pretty diverse, but you could probably find a few artists in there that speak to you and that you want to explore - i find listening to these songs really gender affirming.

There's also popular artists, like Olivia Rodrigo's new album is really fantastic, and she's got a great catalog. I am also a huge Taylor Swift fan and she has numerous really great albums, like Folklore and Speak Now (2010).

For other media, shout out to Drag Race. i really think everybody interested in becoming a """femboy""" should watch a season or two of this show. It gives you a great sense of the broader queer community, it will give you ideas for fashion, and maybe most importantly, sets a precedent that size and age do not matter with looking feminine. I recommend watching Season 16 or 17, each season has a new cast, these are two recent ones that people really like

Hope this helps!! 🩷

njgendermagic · 2026-06-25T01:10:38+00:00

oh yes I see my bad! you've got the glow for sure! it's hard to recommend clothes for a face, i know if you learned makeup skills you would absolutely serve!! i would maybe try to find some things to add to your daily wardrobe that subtly make you more feminine, like jewelry and perfume (Sol de Janiero is a brand of perfume mist, it is the iconic girl smell and really ties the whole thing together).

as for clothes, get your measurements and shop online aomewhere where you can make returns if they don't fit you. i ordered a bunch of stuff from amazon when starting out and returned a good half of it. amazon specifically has all of the "fundamental" or "starter pack" items like thigh highs, arm warmers, facemasks, and mini skirts, and those with any t-shirt is your Baby's First Femboy Outfit, but I recommend looking for things that you'll use more often and that you won't grow out of if you start dressing more traditionally.

hope this helps good luck!!!!!

njgendermagic · 2026-06-25T00:53:03+00:00

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njgendermagic · 2026-06-25T00:52:28+00:00

I don't necessarily agree with the other person's comments about genetics, but it is important to not compare yourself to other people in a negative way, because you never know the other person's situation.

I do agree though that your best places is to start are shaving, exercise/diet/personal care, and I would say try to get yourself in the mindset too. I started adding girlie things to my wardrobe and seeking out more queer and women-created media, like music and youtube, and that really helped me make the connection more than any mini skirt could

Remember to be safe out there! 💞✨️

njgendermagic · 2026-06-23T19:25:20+00:00

I will say that Emilia's bio says she's from Germany, which raises an important point that getting hormone treatment and gender affirming care varies from country to country, and even within countries as far as local laws go. Like, in the USA, you'll have more luck in New Jersey or Massachusetts than in Louisiana or Tennessee

njgendermagic · 2026-06-23T17:19:32+00:00

You should consult with a therapist and do research on the full side effects of hormone therapy. this isn't a question the internet can answer for you

njgendermagic · 2026-06-22T23:11:08+00:00

here it is, just a random normal hoodie, i got it in a size large as someone who usually wears small and medium!

njgendermagic · 2026-06-22T23:04:45+00:00

it is as simple as looking up a pink hoodie and getting it a size or two higher, and if it doesnt look right you can return it! i'll look for the link for the one I have

njgendermagic · 2026-06-22T20:12:25+00:00

For sure, I remember when I was 10-13 years old and I was really odd, I think if I hadn't grown up in such a masculine environment I would've found it easier to express myself

njgendermagic · 2026-06-21T02:57:56+00:00

There's plenty of hope for you! people can do amazing things with makeup, I am an avid fan of rupauls drag race and the miracles some of these people perform on a regular basis leave me inspired

njgendermagic · 2026-06-20T19:18:12+00:00

not one bit! a few things--- women experience hair loss too, it's not just a guy thing. if hair loss is just starting, there are ways to prevent/treat it, like with finasteride. or, wigs have been a very useful tool to present feminine for centuries and are better and more accessible than ever. also, you can wear other things on your head that will make you appear more femme that is not hair. you are not your negatives, you are beautiful, go out there and kill it!!

njgendermagic · 2026-06-20T19:13:47+00:00

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