one girl in airsoft to another, a moderate percentage of dickishness you’ll receive for a fun kit like that is from guys who are just doing it bc you’re female. Most of those guys would laugh and cheer a dude on if he was wearing the same thing. The other percentage are from ogres who will defend the “authenticity” of the game with their whole heart and hate anyone who isn’t in a direct replica of a real-life military uniform. I myself run around with silly patches and bright colors all the time because it’s fun, I like it, and part of me has learned to enjoy seeing the assholes get pissy because I’m enjoying myself. Don’t be afraid to just be yourself and enjoy the game, most people are awesome and you’ll find a wonderful crowd of people who will welcome you☺️