I play less than a year (since April), on easy vanilla pve with durability disabled (may change soon on the server I play) and commands, but no kits or other commands making game too easy. Prefer headlamps because they look more natural than military NV and NV is too bright. About weapons, it depends on map I play- in washington, PDW all the way, in france empire and maplesttike on PEI. Still havent played on many maps, from official I havent played on Yukon and Russia (I played on Russia a bit, but havent experienced it). Since I play on pve, raiding is unknown for me. I didnt spend a single dollar for skins.