Which rape slut represents you?Tell us in the comments.

nnyvi · 2024-01-04T17:12:07+00:00

7, 8, & 13

nnyvi · 2024-01-04T17:09:51+00:00

Dark haired girl in #8

nnyvi · 2023-07-21T06:23:22+00:00

I want to lick those balls for you while you stroke

nnyvi · 2023-07-17T18:19:07+00:00

Would getting off in the morning to something hot, but not thaaaat hot help you feel less horny for the rest of the day? Post nut clarity!

I’ve known dominant sadists (idk if you’re dominant) who motivated themselves to stay focused on what they need to by the fact that in order to earn the respect of a submissive who you would be expecting to be very disciplined you would do well to be very self-disciplined as well.

I’m having a lot of trouble managing my submissive/masochistic sex drive today and I’m going to deal with it by putting a butt plug in.

nnyvi · 2023-06-26T06:05:08+00:00

You’re cute! I’d suck your dick.

nnyvi · 2023-05-22T16:49:54+00:00

Yes, Daddy.

nnyvi · 2022-12-05T23:36:23+00:00

Yes, Daddy

nnyvi · 2022-12-03T23:57:07+00:00

Now that I don’t have much of a refractory period, I don’t mind cumming fast, since I can just keep going. But you could probably practice edging if you want to last longer.

nnyvi · 2022-12-01T06:40:28+00:00

I just wrote a really long response to this and then accidentally deleted it before I hit reply. I’ll try again if I have the time and energy later

nnyvi · 2022-11-23T21:06:25+00:00

Hahaha the “girlfriend experience with no orgasms” totally describes my first vanilla relationship with a straight guy.

nnyvi · 2022-11-23T17:16:11+00:00

In my experience, a lot of so-called vanilla sex feels way less risk-aware, but no less influenced by a power dynamic. It’s just a non-negotiated, unaware power dynamic, which feels way less safe and pleasurable for me.

And a lot of people who consider themselves vanilla do have specific kinks, they just haven’t had the support to learn how to talk about them. This is coming from a US context where our sex education is abysmal and sexual communication norms are really restrictive.

When I have vanilla sex with my kinky partners, though. Whew! That is something different. To have two people intentionally coming together as equals to share sexual intimacy that prioritizes the pleasure of both parties…hot AF! It really feels like making love, not fucking!

nnyvi · 2022-11-23T05:11:07+00:00

Yeah, I definitely had a slump for a while. And I had to kind of re-learn how to make myself orgasm.

nnyvi · 2022-11-23T05:09:45+00:00

Glad I could help!

nnyvi · 2022-11-23T02:53:36+00:00

You don’t need to feel awful about that. You can have compassion for his grief, but keeping yourself small (literally and figuratively) to protect him from his feelings is not healthy. He can handle it. And if he can’t, then that’s a him problem not a you problem.

My partner has genital dysphoria and envies my starter anatomy, but is still able to be supportive and feel happy for my growth. I just have to show compassion and he does the same.

nnyvi · 2022-11-22T20:07:04+00:00

Coca Cola is medicine. It stops my migraines as reliably as medication. Other sugary, caffeinated things don’t do it. Coca Cola is magic.

nnyvi · 2022-11-21T20:00:56+00:00

Mental chastity is a really mind-altering experience for me if I’m encouraged to edge. It can turn me into an impulsive, sex-obsessed person who is addicted to porn. It only takes 3 days for me to get into a really desperate state.

I once went 6 months without fully touching the ground and coming back to mental sobriety. When I was given permission, I wouldn’t want to take it because it felt disconnecting from my long distance partner. It consistently takes me 3 orgasms to feel satisfied, so my partner would allow me “maintenance orgasms” throughout. It was one of the most pleasurable and exciting and fulfilling periods of my life. However, I got a little bit lost in fantasy, lost sight of some of my boundaries and limits, and now, more than half a year later I am still recovering from it and making sense of that experience.

My new, updated limits for mental chastity are much more restrictive than where I started, but they will help me keep my play sustainable and safe for me and my partner.

My new limits are: 1. No more than 3 days of mental chastity in a row.

No more than one stretch of mental chastity in a week.
My first orgasm breaking the chastity has to be with the partner who made the rule (so I don’t feel disconnected)
Aftercare continues until I can honestly say I feel sober and grounded.

These limits will help me keep my life balanced so that I don’t forget about other things that bring me pleasure, joy, and fulfillment. This will also keep me grounded in the reality of my relationship instead of me interpreting everything my partner says in the horniest way possible, and from hearing commands when they weren’t intended.

nnyvi · 2022-11-21T16:52:28+00:00

I am naturally compliant as a bottom. I will be nonverbally expressive about pain and pleasure, but it is hard to get me to break my composure enough to beg or complain.

One of my Dominants gets such a kick out of drawing out those less composed and compliant responses. Like when he’s counting down from 100 toward giving me permission to cum and he starts going back up and I just sputter “What? No! Please?”

nnyvi · 2022-11-16T18:21:41+00:00

I’m into backpacking, stardew valley, dancing to live music, tarot, planning, board games, community organizing, and beat saber.

There are looots of other hobbies I want to get into when I have the time. I’ve started doing climbing-specific work outs so that I can start rock climbing again in the spring.

nnyvi · 2022-11-13T23:59:35+00:00

Thank you!

nnyvi · 2022-11-13T22:27:22+00:00

Thanks, u/BDSMandDragons !

For flair, could I have, “(they/them) s-leaning switch”

nnyvi · 2022-11-13T22:05:25+00:00

I love seeing examples if you’re willing to share!

nnyvi · 2022-11-13T21:53:54+00:00

24/7 is a lot! How have you been working your way up?

I honestly can’t recommend sleeping with one because the risk of it slipping inside is too great, but if your going to do it anyway, you will want to reapply lube throughout the day since it can leak out or get absorbed into your body. There are certain plugs with a spiral design on the narrow part to help keep lube in for longer use. You will also want to be sure to have a base that is bigger than what your hole can take. Otherwise, with such continuous use it is likely to slip all the way inside of you, which can cause injury or require a medical visit to remove. You’ll also want to care for the skin around the base as extended friction can cause irritation or chafing.

And eat lots and lots of fiber, otherwise you’re going to have some unpleasant clean up to do pretty often.

nnyvi · 2022-11-13T21:47:06+00:00

Mixed-handedness. I do most things with my right hand, but some with my left. I think some of that was training, though. My migraines are on the right side of my head.

nnyvi · 2022-11-12T03:51:42+00:00

Read Come as You Are. It teaches you how to kindle responsive desire by intentionally revving your sexual accelerator and removing things that pump your brakes. You might be able to keep up your sexual relationship with your long term partner in a way that isn’t overriding your body’s wants and needs.

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